3 Reasons Why Everyone Should Have a Childless Friend or Two

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Let’s be real: parenting is a juggling act, even in two-parent households. Life throws curveballs, like when my partner and I had tickets to a concert but our babysitter bailed last minute. Or that early morning hospital trip for my partner’s surgery when we needed someone to ensure our little one made it to school on time. With our parents aging and living far away, and no siblings to lean on, we often rely on the kindness of friends. Sure, our friends with kids help out occasionally, but let’s be honest—managing their own family commitments can make it trickier. Thankfully, we have a few amazing childless friends who are always eager to pitch in.

For example, when my kid needed to get to lacrosse practice, our friend Jamie not only provided dinner but insisted on driving her there. I assumed he’d just drop her off, but he texted me asking about the ride home after practice. He even offered to wait and bring her back himself if needed. It was heartwarming to see his willingness to help.

I’ve noticed that our friends without kids tend to engage with our daughter more than those who do have children. When we hang out with other families, the kids usually scatter off to entertain themselves. But our childless friends often want to join in the fun—whether it’s playing board games or just chatting with her—and she absolutely loves that.

I’m so grateful for the support from these friends, but even more so that my daughter has other adults in her life who care about her. Here are three solid reasons why having a childless friend or two can be beneficial:

1. An Unbiased Ear for Tough Topics

Let’s face it, there are some conversations my daughter might feel awkward having with us about dating or other sensitive subjects. That’s where our friends come in. They know our values and can provide her with advice while being that neutral party she can confide in. Trust me, I remember how hard it was to open up to my parents during my teenage years!

2. A Different Perspective

In a small family of three, it can sometimes feel isolating if my daughter disagrees with us. Having an outsider’s view can be a game-changer. Our friends can remind her that we love her, even when she thinks we’re being unfair. It’s nice for her to have someone to vent to who gets the family dynamic.

3. More People to Love Her

While many kids have siblings or aunts and uncles to reinforce their sense of belonging, my daughter has just us and her grandparents, whom she sees sporadically. Knowing there are three other adults who genuinely care about her is a powerful reminder that she is cherished and valued.

In summary, childless friends can bring unique benefits to families, providing support, different perspectives, and additional love for our children.

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