Our journey together started rather suddenly, yet it felt effortless and natural. My life transformed dramatically to make room for you, but I embraced that change wholeheartedly. I was a young, enthusiastic seeker of your comforts. I craved you multiple times each day, stealing moments in my bed, the living room, or even in the car. I admit it; I was dependent, and you were always there for me. In those blissful days, our connection was never strained, always harmonious.
As time passed, our relationship evolved, as they often do. You were still there for me most days, though it required more effort. There were times I had to fight for you, and other days I reluctantly accepted your absence, confident you’d return. Some days, I fully utilized everything you provided, while on others, I surrendered to your irresistible charm, drowning in your embrace. Those moments are the ones I will miss the most. You truly were my ultimate Afternoon Delight.
I admit I took you for granted. I thought we had an endless supply of time together. But now, it’s time to say goodbye.
The shift came just days before my oldest child’s eighth birthday; my youngest, a spirited 3-year-old, abruptly stopped napping. It was sudden and unexpected. She just quit, cold turkey, with no warning. For eight years, there was always at least one of my three kids napping daily, and during those precious moments, the others enjoyed mandatory quiet time, reading or playing in their rooms. As a stay-at-home mom, Nap Time was sacred—my time for work, relaxation, and even a moment of peace. But my 3-year-old began to struggle at bedtime, often lying awake for hours, unable to unwind after her afternoon rest. Nightmares invaded her dreams, waking her in the middle of the night, disrupting her sleep. Naps were becoming more of a burden than a blessing.
So, I must bid farewell, dear Naptime. I will miss you dearly.
But wait! Don’t go just yet!
- When will I sip my coffee in blissful silence?
- When will I have time to write?
- When will I have privacy even in the bathroom?
- When can I vent about my kids with my friends on the phone?
- When will I catch up on my favorite shows?
Without Naptime, I worry I won’t be able to stay awake long enough to watch my beloved evening programs. I need you, Naptime! Please tell me this isn’t our final goodbye. Perhaps one day, we will cross paths again. Picture this: meet me at the beach this summer! Come to me while I relax under the shade of the umbrella, as my kids build sandcastles with their dad nearby.
A sweet, nostalgic rendezvous, one last fling. I’ll never stop cherishing you, Naptime, and I am so grateful for the wonderful eight years we shared. Until we meet again!
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Summary:
In this heartfelt farewell to Naptime, Emma reflects on the profound impact that those quiet moments had on her life as a busy mom. With a blend of nostalgia and humor, she navigates the bittersweet transition as her youngest child moves on from napping, recognizing the need to embrace new changes while cherishing the memories.