9 Surprising Things That Bring Moms Joy

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We know the major sources of happiness for mothers: healthy children, food on the table, and a home to call our own. However, there are smaller, often overlooked joys of motherhood that can unexpectedly brighten our days. Here are nine delightful moments that can make moms unreasonably happy.

1. Organizing Tupperware: The satisfaction of matching lids to containers and finally tossing out those mismatched pieces is immense. Opening that cabinet without a deluge of old takeout containers is a small victory that feels oh-so-good.
2. Treating Yourself to a Blowout: Once upon a time, I had fabulous hair, but these days it’s usually tied back in a messy bun. When I do manage to get a blowout, it’s like a mini makeover; I walk taller and feel more like myself. If I could have a stylist on speed dial, I might just consider a run for office!
3. Fresh Underwear: Nothing beats the joy of discarding worn-out undies for beautiful, new ones. It’s a little luxury that brings a smile to your face. Right behind that is the satisfaction of replacing those old, hole-y socks with soft, high-quality wool ones.
4. “Going Through That”: My friend Steve, who loves a tidy space, often mentions needing to “go through” something like the cluttered junk drawer or the chaotic bathroom cabinet. I may not be a neat freak, but I adore organizing those neglected spaces. After my friend and her partner got a fancy new silverware divider, they couldn’t help but admire their organized drawer every time they opened it.
5. Enjoying Solitude at Home: How often do you get to experience the house without the kids? Rarely! When the babysitter takes the little ones out, it’s a golden opportunity to either immerse myself in a great book or tackle some organizing (see #4).
6. Forced Delays: There’s something about being stuck in a waiting room, latte in hand, with a stack of magazines to flip through. My friend Laura finds pure bliss when her dentist or doctor runs late — it’s a mini-vacation from the chaos of mom life.
7. Someone Else Cooks for You: When you’re the family’s head chef, meals can become monotonous. The thrill of having someone else whip up dinner is a true treat, especially when the usual “what’s for dinner?” question feels exhausting.
8. Tackling Those Annoying Chores: Whether it’s unclogging a drain or fixing that stubborn doorknob, finally addressing these nagging tasks can feel exhilarating. My friend Jenna forgot what it was like to shower without standing in a puddle until she finally snaked her drain. Fixing little things can feel as refreshing as moving into a new place!
9. Catching All the Green Lights: Or having the train arrive just as you step onto the platform — these little moments make a busy mom feel like she’s on top of the world. With schedules often jam-packed, these small victories feel like a gift from the universe.

Absolutely, I’m grateful for the significant blessings in life, but it’s the little triumphs, like organizing that cluttered cabinet or enjoying a peaceful moment alone, that bring genuine joy.

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Summary

Mothers experience joy in both significant and minor ways. From organizing Tupperware to enjoying a rare moment of solitude, these small pleasures can brighten a mom’s day. Tackle those pesky chores, savor a delicious home-cooked meal made by someone else, and relish the unexpected moments of bliss that life throws your way.