Before I embraced motherhood, I prided myself on being organized and in control. I often wondered how others managed to function without a plan. Now, however, after welcoming my two energetic boys, I find myself in a whirlwind of chaos. I can’t help but feel frustrated that I’ve become the frazzled mom I once judged. Keeping my little ones entertained and healthy means that many of my former habits have been tossed aside. Here are ten things about my new life that I wish I could change, but seem unable to escape:
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I often forget to reply to texts.
If I don’t respond to a text right away, the chances of me getting back to it later are slim to none. I tend to read messages immediately because I can’t stand that pesky little notification bubble. Unfortunately, this leads to me forgetting the conversation altogether. Although I want to keep in touch, my busy life often gets in the way. My friends, who are also juggling motherhood, understand this mutual struggle. -
I set multiple alarms.
People without kids might find it hard to grasp how someone could forget to pick up their child from school. Yet, I rely on alarms to remind me when it’s time to start preparing my little one to pick up his older brother. I need reminders for everything—from seasonal activities to doctor appointments, and yes, even to respond to those texts! -
My smartphone is my memory.
This ties back to my previous point. With so much on my mind, I often forget important details if they’re not documented. I struggle to recall birthdays, phone numbers, or even grocery lists without help from my phone or apps like Evernote. -
If it’s not on my calendar, it’s as good as forgotten.
I’ve had countless moments when my husband mentions a meeting, and if it’s not on my calendar, it simply slips my mind. This causes confusion and frustration when plans change unexpectedly. I rely heavily on alerts to ensure I don’t miss my own events! -
I frequently overbook myself.
I dislike canceling plans, but sometimes I find myself double-booked. I might have the first commitment in my calendar, but if I don’t check it before saying yes to something new, I’m in trouble. -
We’re often late, rarely early.
Being late is something I despise, especially when others do it. Before kids, I believed in the old saying, “If you’re on time, you’re late.” Now, we struggle to arrive anywhere punctually. It’s almost a guarantee that one of the kids will need a last-minute diaper change or snack as we’re heading out the door. -
I’m never truly caught up.
I maintain a to-do list, but it feels endless. The house is always in need of cleaning, work seems never-ending, and my boys are constantly hungry. I can’t fully relax when I know there’s always something waiting for my attention. -
I neglect to reach out to loved ones.
I used to be proactive about checking in with friends and family, but now I often have to set reminders just to say hello. My ability to keep track of their lives has diminished significantly. -
Thoughtful gifts have become a rarity.
With my busy schedule, I find myself lacking the time to select the perfect gift or plan memorable outings. I miss the days when I could personalize presents, but now I often throw together something last minute. -
Wrapping presents is a lost art.
In line with my gift-giving woes, I’ve become so rushed that I rarely wrap presents anymore. If you’re lucky, you might receive a gift in a bag—don’t expect any fancy tissue paper!
I’m fairly certain I’m not alone in feeling like I’ve transformed into the disorganized mom I promised I’d never become. I could reach out to my fellow moms to share this experience, but like me, they might not respond right away!
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In summary, motherhood has brought about a whirlwind of changes, many of which I find overwhelming. Yet, it’s a journey filled with love and laughter, even amid the chaos.