So, here’s the thing: as a mom of two who hasn’t donned a bikini since the days before I hit puberty, I really struggle to vibe with the whole “bikini mom” movement. Don’t get me wrong—I totally admire her for flaunting her body and empowering others to do the same. That’s awesome for those who feel inspired to embrace their curves and rock their bikinis at the beach. Good for them!
But let’s be real: I’ve always opted for one-pieces, and lately, they’ve evolved into skirted suits. Sometimes when I catch a glimpse of those vintage swimsuits in old-school movies, you know—the ones that cover up more than they reveal—I can’t help but wish they were still in style. Here’s the kicker: every time I see bikini mom, it feels like a nudge to love my body and show off what I’ve got. But it’s a lot harder when she’s got that enviable figure.
Not only do I feel like I lack a “bikini body,” but I’m also reminded of my own self-doubt. Hats off to her for inspiring others to flaunt their stretch marks and imperfections, but I’m still in the same boat. The thought of a photo of me in a bikini being shared by 40,000 people? Yikes, that’s a nightmare scenario!
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In summary, while the bikini mom movement promotes body positivity, it can be difficult for those of us who still feel self-conscious about our bodies. Everyone’s journey to self-acceptance is different, and that’s okay.