What to Avoid Saying When Your Parents Gift You a Car for Graduation

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Let’s talk about that moment when your parents surprise you with a car for graduation. It’s an exciting time, but trust me, there are some things you definitely don’t want to say.

So, picture this: My first car was a used Ford Escort that my parents had for a few years. It was reliable but not exactly what I dreamt of driving. As a high school senior, I had my eyes set on a shiny blue Honda Civic. It was sporty and fun, just what I thought I needed to express my youthful spirit.

Fast forward to college applications, my mom had a plan. She insisted on schools nearby, subtly nudging me toward the local university, which was just fifteen minutes from home. I wanted to explore the world, not stay in my hometown! But she kept pushing. After a couple of campus tours—one on a cloudy day and another when the sun was shining—she finally made me an offer I thought was too good to refuse. “If you go to this university, we’ll get you any car you want!”

Being a typical teenager, I took the bait. I applied, got in, and eagerly awaited my new Civic. But when I brought it up to my mom, she casually said, “Oh, that car? That’s only if you live at home and commute.” I hadn’t read the fine print of her offer. Living at home? Not a chance. So, off I went to college car-less, feeling a bit tricked.

Fast forward to graduation day. My parents called, bubbling with excitement. “We’ve got a graduation gift for you… a CAR!” My heart raced. Finally! The promise of a new ride. “Is it the blue Civic?” I asked, barely containing my excitement.

“Nope, it’s a Toyota!” she replied, but something felt off. “What model?” I inquired, expecting something cool. “It’s a… Corona,” she said, hesitating. My excitement waned. “A Corolla?” I asked, trying to clarify. “No, a Corona. It’s a 1979 model.”

Wait, what? A 1979 Toyota Corona? My jaw dropped. Was this really the graduation gift I had been waiting for? I couldn’t believe they chose a beat-up old car that looked like it had seen better days. Why didn’t they at least let me help pick it out? I mean, I was a college graduate now, right?

In my disappointment, I made the rookie mistake of venting to my mom. Words like “ungrateful” and “spoiled” flew around before she hung up on me. I was left feeling confused and guilty.

But at the end of the day, they bought me a car. It was a nice gesture, even if it was a bit of a lemon. I quickly learned to appreciate it, especially since it was the early ’90s and money was tight. I called back, apologized, and thanked them. When I finally saw the Corona, it was a faded silver with a weird interior color. The first time I drove it, the engine sputtered and it felt like I was in a comedy sketch.

Eventually, my parents realized I needed something more reliable for my new job. We swapped cars, and I ended up with my mom’s 1988 Mercury Tracer, which was a much better fit. The Corona? Well, it became a family legend. My sister nicknamed it “The Bullet,” and it eventually met its end after a series of repairs.

The moral? Be grateful for what you get, even if it’s not what you expected. And remember, it’s the thought that counts, right?

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In summary, when your parents give you a car for graduation, express your gratitude, even if it’s not the dream car you envisioned. It’s a generous gift, and your appreciation will go a long way.