Well, that was all the motivation I needed. I dug deep, found my feminist spirit, and decided that there was no reason I couldn’t take charge and whip up some burgers myself.
Let me be clear: I couldn’t even figure out how to turn on the grill outside. No joke.
But I was undeterred. Armed with a gas stove, a cast-iron grill pan, and Google, I set off on this culinary adventure. After scouring the internet for tips on using a cast-iron grill pan and figuring out how to tell when a burger is done, I felt ready. Of course, I stumbled across multiple warnings about grease fires and flare-ups, so I made sure the fire extinguisher was within reach (but tucked away under the sink so my kids wouldn’t pick up on any of my hesitations about this mission).
Setting Goals for Operation Burger
Before I started, I laid out some simple goals for Operation Burger. Unlike many tactical missions, these were things I wanted to avoid instead of achieve:
- Burning the house down.
- Poisoning the kids with salmonella.
- Creating hockey pucks instead of burgers.
- Burning any part of my body. Seriously.
- Did I mention burning the house down? (That one’s a biggie.)
As I gathered my ingredients and formed the beef patties, I reflected on how my parenting aspirations had evolved since finding out I was going to be a mother. My husband and I had a tough time conceiving, so after a long journey, when we discovered we were expecting twins, I was overjoyed and determined to be the perfect mother.
I was committed: I was going to breastfeed for two years, use cloth diapers, make homemade baby food, teach my kids to read by three, ban TV, do arts and crafts daily, read to them every night, never raise my voice, volunteer for every school event, keep the house spotless, fill the fridge with organic foods, grow my own veggies, and whistle while I worked.
Fast forward nine years and a surprise baby girl later. All those ideas? Totally gone. I managed a mere six weeks of breastfeeding with each kid. Cloth diapers? Let’s not even go there. Jarred baby food was way too convenient. The boys learned to read at six, watched Baby Einstein from the moment they could focus on the screen, and my house? It looks like a tornado hit it. As for organic groceries, I’d be living in a cardboard box if I went that route. Arts and crafts? Too messy—glitter and Play-Doh are my arch-nemeses. I even killed two tomato plants last summer because I forgot to water them. By bedtime, I’m so relieved that they’re finally asleep that reading is out of the question. It took me four years to start volunteering in their classes, and let’s be honest, I count the minutes until I can escape that chaos. My whistling has turned into what my kids call “the Mom scream.”
So here I am, standing in front of the stove, trying to cook burgers, and hoping to avoid turning the house into a pile of ashes, keeping my body intact, and ensuring the kids don’t end up in the ER. Those lofty goals have boiled down to these three, and if I can pull it off, I’ll consider it a huge win.
Apart from a brief panic when flames erupted after flipping one of the burgers, the dinner prep went surprisingly smooth. The fire extinguisher remained safely tucked away, and the burgers earned the kids’ stamp of approval as “actually pretty good.” Everyone went to bed without triggering the smoke alarm or any surprise vomit episodes.
A roaring success, I tell you!
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Summary
This article reflects on the humorous and realistic journey of a mom navigating her way through cooking burgers while juggling the chaos of parenthood. What started as a lofty vision of motherhood has transformed into a more down-to-earth approach, focusing on achieving basic survival goals in the kitchen.