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Earning More Than Your Partner? Watch Out!
It might seem like an old-school notion, but a 2010 study from Cornell focused on couples aged 18 to 28 who had been together for over a year. These aren’t your typical partners arguing over who’s in charge; they probably don’t even remember those vintage perfume ads where the woman juggles work and home life. The study hinted at a troubling trend: when women out-earn their partners, it can lead to serious issues. A follow-up study in 2013 found that men in these situations were 10% more likely to seek prescriptions for erectile dysfunction, anxiety, and insomnia.
What’s Up With That?
Are these guys just insecure, or is this a blind spot that feminism hasn’t fully addressed? Instead of celebrating their partners’ successes, why do some men feel threatened? It confuses me, especially since I’ve been the primary earner in my relationship for years without any problems.
Author Sarah Thompson offers some helpful strategies in her book, like “revising the fairy tale,” to help couples navigate these modern challenges. One rather disheartening solution she suggests is to maintain the woman’s salary at about 75% of the man’s to keep the peace and reduce the chances of infidelity. But honestly, that doesn’t feel like a real fix. I’d rather recommend finding a partner who genuinely celebrates your achievements—someone who finds it attractive when you succeed.
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Conclusion
In summary, while earning more than your partner can create tension, it’s essential to foster a supportive environment. Seek out a partner who values your success, and don’t settle for anything less.