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What Did I Actually Achieve Today?
You know those days when you feel like you’ve run a marathon but can’t quite remember what you did? The other day, I found myself driving back to my kid’s school in a snowstorm, clutching a pair of tattered snow pants that were one wear away from giving out completely. My son, Ethan, had forgotten them just as we were about to drop him off. As the snow started to pile up, he said, “Mom! I don’t have my snow pants!” I offered to grab them, but he shrugged it off, figuring it wasn’t a big deal.
After about 92 minutes of staying home, I decided that trekking through four inches of unplowed snow was worth it for those pants—because who wants to be the kid left out in the snow without the right gear? When I arrived at the school, the office staff asked what I was delivering. I couldn’t help but laugh and say, “Isn’t this just what we moms do?”
It’s true, isn’t it? Day in and day out, we’re stuck in a rhythm of the same tasks—folding laundry, scrubbing crayon marks from the floor, sorting toys, and making countless school lunches. We rock our babies, hold our toddlers’ hands, and help them learn skills that will make them more independent. Then, at the end of the day, you might find yourself wondering, “What on earth did I actually do today?”
We often search for the big accomplishments—the massive projects we tackle or the fun trips we take. But it’s in those small, everyday moments that the real beauty of motherhood lies. Like delivering snow pants when it matters most.
Trust me, you have those moments too. They are not grand or flashy, but they are the essence of being a mom. No one hands out awards for staying up with a sick child or for patiently convincing a 7-year-old to sit still for ear drops. Those little victories—like the joy of crafting or dancing in the living room with your kids—are what truly matter.
And let’s not forget the daily struggles—the battles over getting dressed or mealtimes that turn into epic showdowns. It’s easy to feel defeated, especially when you’re exhausted but still keep pushing through. But don’t underestimate the strength in being a tired mom who simply shows up every day.
It’s tempting to measure success by ticking off items on your to-do list. But that list? It’s just a guide, not a report card. Real life unfolds in those unscheduled moments, like sharing a laugh while waiting for your middle schooler to get picked up.
Ethan probably didn’t think much about me bringing those snow pants. He was just happy to go play in the snow, not realizing all the little things I do for him every day. That’s what we do as moms, isn’t it? We accumulate these small yet significant moments that weave together a beautiful narrative.
So, if you ever find yourself questioning your productivity, remember those tiny moments that make your story unique and beautiful. If someone asks what you accomplished today, take a moment to reflect on those little victories. Write them down, cherish them, and appreciate the impact you’re making in your child’s life.
You didn’t do nothing—you mothered.
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Summary
This piece reflects on the often-overlooked moments of motherhood, emphasizing that the daily tasks and small victories are what truly matter, even when they may seem mundane. It encourages moms to appreciate their contributions and not to judge their worth by a to-do list.