3 Reasons Why You Can Totally Manage a Third Baby

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Hey there, soon-to-be mom of three! Feeling a bit anxious about bringing a new baby into the mix with your two little ones? Trust me, I get it! I spent months stressing over how I’d juggle everything, but now that my third little one has arrived, I want to share three reassuring reasons why you shouldn’t worry too much about this next step in your parenting journey.

1. This Too Shall Pass

By the time you hit three kids, you really embrace the idea that “this too shall pass.” You know, everyone loves to tell you this phrase about parenting, usually with a nostalgic smile. I heard it a million times from older moms, often followed by, “Enjoy it! Time flies.” When I was knee-deep in sleepless nights with my first newborn, I thought I’d never get through it. And when baby #2 came along? I figured my survival was just pure luck. But now that I’m on my third, I can definitely say that those tough moments do fade. Sure, there are nights filled with sweaty sheets and endless messes, but I remind myself that these challenges won’t last forever. And when you’ve survived those chaotic days before, it’s so much easier to breathe and tackle the whirlwind of a newborn again. You’ll come to cherish those fleeting moments, and trust me, you’ll eventually get to dress up and enjoy a night out with your partner again—sans the milk stains!

2. Celebrate the Small Wins

You feel like a superstar for accomplishing even the smallest tasks. Got both kids’ teeth brushed and the baby fed? That’s a win, my friend! Managed to pull off a crafty activity (even if it’s just threading cereal onto a pipe cleaner)? You deserve a medal! I still remember my first solo trip to the pharmacy with all three kids. I had the toddler in one arm and was trying to wrangle the baby carrier with the other while calling out to my oldest, “Are you with me?!” But you know what? We made it out of there without needing a store clerk’s help, and that felt like a major achievement. Seriously, if that doesn’t qualify you for “Mom of the Year,” I don’t know what does.

3. Sibling Support

Having a newborn plus two older kids can actually be easier than having a newborn and just one older child. Sounds wild, right? Let me explain. Dealing with a toddler and a newborn is definitely tough, but having two older siblings means they can entertain each other. My oldest is surprisingly helpful—not in a “please hand me a wipe” way, but more like “can you help get your brother down from the table while I nurse the baby?” Plus, it’s nice to have another person around who can hold a conversation and can appreciate the little antics of the younger ones. Yes, they might squabble from time to time, but hey, “this too shall pass,” right? You’ll witness their sibling bond grow and flourish, which is incredibly rewarding.

So take a deep breath, future mom of three! While some may paint a scary picture of it, I couldn’t be happier with my wild, wonderful family.

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Summary

Embracing the journey of welcoming a third baby can be daunting, but it also brings unique joys and advantages. With experience comes wisdom, and you’ll find that the challenges you face are temporary. Achievements, no matter how small, become moments of pride, and older siblings can provide unexpected support. Remember, you’re not alone in this adventure!