Just Because a Kid Gets Into College Doesn’t Mean They’re Prepared to Go

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Let’s face it, not every teenager is ready to dive into college right after high school. Just like kids don’t learn to crawl, walk, talk, or read at the same time, they also won’t be ready to date, drive, or start college all at once. The expectation that everyone should jump straight into college after graduating can be unrealistic—it might not suit every kid’s emotional maturity or personal goals.

I remember chatting with a bright young guy during an alumni interview who nervously asked, “Do I have to leave home? Can I still go to college and stay here?” His academic skills were impressive, but he seemed unsure about handling the emotional challenges that come with moving away from home. For him, the idea of college felt overwhelming, even if it was in a different state.

With high schools focusing heavily on grades and college admissions, there’s often little emphasis on what comes next. Many students feel pressured to go straight to college, and taking a gap year can seem like a failure. But experts like Dr. Emily Carter suggest that stepping back for a bit can be beneficial. “A gap year isn’t just for those who aren’t ready; it’s also for those who want to figure out what they truly want,” she explains.

Kathy Lee, who runs a gap year program, highlights that students who take time off often come back more prepared. They learn to advocate for themselves, acquire essential life skills, and gain a clearer understanding of their goals. Holly Smith, a gap year advisor, agrees, noting that students who take this time typically transition more smoothly into college and perform better academically.

These experiences aren’t just about having fun; they help students build confidence and a sense of identity. “There are so many reasons a student might choose to take a gap year, from personal growth to simply needing more time to find their footing,” says Lee.

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In summary, just because a student gets into college doesn’t mean they’re ready to start right away. Taking a gap year can help them mature, gain real-world experience, and figure out what they truly want from their education.