Let’s be honest: sometimes, a little time apart from our significant other can be a breath of fresh air. Sure, I love my husband, but every now and then, I find myself relishing those rare nights when he’s away for work. It’s like a mini-vacation in my own home! And according to a recent study in Social Forces, wives often report an improved quality of life when their husbands spend more time at the office. So, it seems I’m not alone in this! Here are five reasons why I enjoy a night without my husband:
1. A Bed All to Myself
Oh, the joy of having the whole bed to myself! No more heavy legs draped over me or fights over the blanket. It’s just me, sprawled out comfortably amidst fluffy pillows, with the thermostat set perfectly. Plus, I don’t have to deal with the lingering scent of last week’s takeout. It’s the little luxuries, right?
2. Consistent Bedtime Routines
When it’s just me and the kids, the bedtime routine is so much smoother. There are no distractions like “let’s play outside” or “snack time,” just a straightforward plan of brushing teeth and reading books by 8:30 pm – ideally 8:00 pm, but we can’t be perfect every night!
3. Dinner Simplicity
On solo nights, I can whip up easy meals like breakfast for dinner without hearing complaints. The kids adore simple options like eggs and toast, and I love how low-maintenance it is. And of course, it’s always a hit when ice cream is involved for dessert!
4. Binge-Watching My Shows
Unless we’re having one of those “together” nights, the TV is usually tuned to sports, which I could really do without. When he’s away, I can indulge in my favorite shows without interruption, like the latest dramas or reality TV without the risk of a sports takeover.
5. Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder
Time apart really helps me appreciate my husband more when he returns. It’s like a little reminder of how much I love having him around after enjoying a break. So, when’s the next work trip, honey?
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Summary
A little time apart from my husband can be refreshing and even beneficial. From enjoying my own space in bed to having smoother bedtime routines with the kids, I find joy in those solo nights. Plus, it gives me the chance to catch up on my favorite shows and appreciate my husband even more when he returns.