Why I’m Forever Thankful for My Mom

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You know those kids whose moms always seem to be around for school events, helping out with art projects, or sneaking in extra cookies at lunchtime? I used to envy them so much. My mom, however, was a single parent who juggled a lot. If she could have, she would have loved to be that present, hands-on mom, but her sick days were strictly for when we were under the weather. She worked tirelessly as a special education teacher and then came home to care for my sister and me—two imaginative, spirited girls who needed her attention.

Things didn’t turn out how she envisioned. She’d once dreamed of having eight kids, but life had other plans. Instead of endless playdates and art sessions, she found herself navigating the challenges of single motherhood. My dad was a caring man, but he couldn’t quite provide the stability she hoped for, and over time, their differing visions for family life became clear. By the time my sister was born, my parents had separated, leaving my mom to figure out how to support us on her own.

I learned much later that she made sacrifices—living off the sale of our condo, relying on government assistance, and help from her parents just to get by. She yearned to be home with us when we were little, just as she had with me. Even after returning to work, finances remained tight, and it took her years to achieve stability. We always had what we needed, but it was a constant struggle.

Now, as I embrace my role as a mostly full-time mom to my two boys, I truly feel grateful. The daily grind can be exhausting and lonely, but I recognize it as a gift to be present for my children. I appreciate every moment, especially when my partner comes home after a long day. I’m fortunate to have found someone who shares my vision of family life, even if we’re also feeling the financial pinch. My upbringing taught me that what kids really need is the love and presence of their parents.

Of course, family dynamics vary, and not everyone wants the traditional setup. I understand many women pursue careers outside the home, and for some families, it isn’t financially feasible for one parent to stay home. I’m incredibly thankful to have the choice to work or stay home.

Above all, I’m grateful for my mom. Despite the financial stress and her exhaustion, she was my rock. She did her utmost with the resources she had, shaping me into the woman and mother I am today. I always knew she would be there for me, providing a sense of stability amidst the chaos of my childhood.

Now that she’s retired after two decades of teaching, she continues to support me. She rushes over to help with my children whenever I need it, and while I sometimes feel a twinge of guilt asking for help—knowing how little she had back then—she genuinely enjoys being there. I want my kids to experience her in this joyful phase of her life, strumming her guitar and rolling around on the floor, just having fun. I hope they see her strength and resilience, wrapped in her unwavering love.

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In summary, my mom’s journey taught me the importance of resilience, love, and presence in parenting. I cherish the lessons she instilled in me and the bond we share, and I’m thankful for the opportunity to give my children the gift of her love.