Hey there! So, there was this study called The Shriver Report Snapshot that looked into what traits men really want in their wives and daughters, and it seems a bit outdated—like, are we still doing this in 2023? They surveyed 818 American heterosexual men over 18 about their ideal qualities.
Intelligence and Independence
To kick things off, intelligence was the top trait for both wives and daughters, which is pretty solid. But here comes the twist: while a whopping 66% of these guys wanted their daughters to be independent, only 34% thought the same about their wives. Talk about a double standard!
Strength and Resilience
And get this—strength was valued much higher in daughters (48%) than in wives (28%). It’s kind of unclear if they mean physical strength or emotional resilience, but either way, it’s telling. They probably should’ve included “great at finding lost stuff” as a desirable trait, since I can bet wives would have totally crushed that category.
Where Wives Shine
Where did wives shine? Well, they topped the charts in attractiveness, sweetness, and nurturing—because who doesn’t want a hot and doting partner, right? On a concerning note, 30% of these men felt that women taking on more roles outside the home negatively impacted American men’s confidence.
Conclusion
So, to sum it up: men want their daughters to be smart, independent, and strong—all traits that would help them thrive in the workplace. But when it comes to their wives, those qualities seem to take a backseat unless they’re coupled with attractiveness and a nurturing spirit. Danielle Paquette from the Washington Post sums it up well: as women step into their power, some men feel a little lost.
Maybe it’s time for a little growth on their part, don’t you think?
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To wrap it all up, it seems like while society has evolved, some traditional expectations linger. Here’s hoping for a future where strong, independent women are celebrated in all aspects of life.