The Irony of Mother’s Day: A Reality Check

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Hey there! So, let’s dive into the irony of Mother’s Day, as highlighted by comedian John Oliver. He gives us a little background on the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), which, let’s be honest, is the best we’ve got right now. This law only guarantees 12 weeks of job protection for new moms, but only if they’ve been employed for at least a year and their workplace has at least 50 employees. Oliver points out that this means a whopping 40% of workers aren’t even covered! Imagine a woman going into labor at work without paid leave—she’s just hoping it’s during lunch and that her coworkers are cool with a messy break room.

The FMLA was passed back in 1993, despite a lot of pushback from lawmakers who probably bought their moms flowers on Mother’s Day but thought that letting new moms keep their jobs would ruin American businesses. Spoiler alert: It didn’t!

Now, if you’re done having babies, family leave might not be your concern anymore, but what about the next generation? Don’t they deserve better? Here’s the reality check:

• Freelancers or contract workers? They get nada, not even a guarantee of a job to return to after having a baby.
• Those lucky enough to qualify for 12 weeks of leave don’t necessarily get paid (unless their company has a specific policy for that). They often have to dip into vacation or sick time instead.
• If you work for a company with fewer than 50 employees, you’re out of luck.

When I had my little one, I worked in TV production. After giving birth, I tried to extend my unpaid maternity leave for another month. I had the green light from my boss and even the network president. But when I called HR to confirm, they flat-out rejected my request. Their reasoning? It would be unfair to other mothers. And just to add to my frustration, the HR rep chirped, “You’ll find it’s easier than you think once you’re back.” Really? That’s what you say to a new mom of a 2-month-old whose plans just got crushed? If we weren’t on a call, I might’ve lost it.

Oliver nails it with, “Moms shouldn’t have to scramble for recovery time after childbirth like we plan a long weekend in Vegas.” And let’s not forget about dads. He highlights the absurdity of Major League Baseball, which only offers players three days of paternity leave. Take Daniel Reed, a second baseman for the New York Knights; his wife went into labor on opening day, and he got slammed for missing the first two games. Some commentators even suggested scheduling a C-section just to accommodate his game schedule. Seriously? Who thinks that parents shouldn’t have time with their kids?

Paid family leave isn’t a radical idea—189 other countries already provide it. Families are essential to society, yet we live in a country that complains about the lack of parental involvement while forcing moms to choose between work and family. If you can’t afford to take unpaid leave, the choice is made for you.

It might be too late for some of us, but let’s focus on making things better for the next generation. It’s time to stop the empty praise we throw at moms on Mother’s Day. As Oliver puts it, “You deserve the very best, moms, you just might not get it.”

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Summary: John Oliver sheds light on the irony of Mother’s Day by discussing the limitations of the Family and Medical Leave Act. While it offers some job protection for new mothers, significant gaps remain, especially for freelancers and those working at smaller companies. The societal pressures on parents, particularly around the expectations of work versus family time, are highlighted, emphasizing the need for better support for the next generation.