The Do’s and Don’ts of Assisting the New Grad in Your Life with Job Hunting

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Hey there! So, my friend Jamie is about to graduate from college, and since I’ve been in the working world for a while, I really want to lend her a hand. She’s interested in getting into entertainment PR, and while I haven’t worked in that area for a bit, I do have some solid contacts left over from my time at various TV networks. I can’t help but feel like that quirky character from a holiday classic, holding onto a few tricks to help her out. But, after reading some advice on how to assist without overstepping, I’ve gathered some do’s and don’ts to keep things smooth for her transition.

DON’T ask for a job on their behalf.

That’s a given, right? I mean, while Jamie is super talented and awesome, I know that hiring someone isn’t just about knowing them. I won’t be pushing anyone to hire her just because she’s available (and, yes, fabulously talented).

DO suggest where she can search for positions.

This feels a little less presumptuous, so I think I’ll throw that out there!

DON’T request a long meeting with your connections for her.

I wouldn’t dream of asking for an hour! But a 30-minute chat about her career with someone who’s made a name for themselves? That could be beneficial.

DO see if you can share their email with her.

This feels like a bigger commitment! A meeting has an end, whereas email exchanges can drag on forever.

DON’T ask for a resume review.

Totally agree with this one—resume writing is a tricky business, and not everyone is an expert.

DO inquire about industry-specific tips for her resume.

I think I’ll leave that to Jamie herself once I reach out to my old colleagues for a little chat I’m not supposed to ask for. I’m not her parent, and it feels a bit hovering to dictate her resume.

Here’s the takeaway: If you can help your new grad, go for it! I plan to reconnect with some former coworkers, talk up Jamie, and see if they might give her insights into the industry and guidance on opportunities. Just remember: if you wouldn’t ask the same of a stranger, it’s probably best not to ask others to do it for your loved one either.

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Summary:

When helping a new grad find a job, avoid asking for positions on their behalf or requesting long meetings. Instead, offer guidance on where to find jobs and industry-specific resume tips. Always consider the same courtesy you’d extend to a stranger when seeking assistance.