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She Discovered It Was Masturbation Month—Here’s What Went Down Next!
At first, I thought this whole idea of Masturbation Month was just another quirky internet trend, like some sort of International “Let’s Pretend It’s Masturbation Month” joke. But it turns out, it actually started way back in 1995. This was in response to Joycelyn Elders, the U.S. Surgeon General at the time, who had the audacity to suggest that masturbation is a normal part of human sexuality and that kids should be taught it’s okay. And what happened next? Well, she got fired by the Clinton administration. Talk about irony!
Thus, International Masturbation Month was born—a rallying cry for sexual empowerment and self-acceptance. But honestly, wouldn’t it be better if we had an International Women’s Masturbation Month? Women tend not to have as many open discussions about self-pleasure. In contrast, when it comes to men, the conversation is everywhere. It’s like pop culture is dominated by men’s solo activities, while women’s experiences remain largely unspoken.
We could dive deep into why this disparity exists, but let’s face it, we already know. As women, we are all too familiar with the societal pressures and institutional sexism that shape our understanding of our bodies and sexuality. There’s a culture of shame that starts early, reinforced through everything from how we talk to kids about their bodies to the media’s portrayal of female pleasure.
But instead of wallowing in that, let’s pivot to a more uplifting perspective: you deserve to enjoy your own body! You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to, but don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for exploring your own pleasure. Your body is yours, and you get to decide what feels good. If you haven’t taken the time to discover what brings you joy, you might be missing out on some eye-opening experiences, especially as you grow older and care less about societal expectations.
When women gather, the conversations rarely turn to how often they pleasure themselves. Sure, there are lighthearted chats about toys and other playful topics, but the act of masturbation itself tends to be shrouded in silence. Unfortunately, the carefree attitude surrounding men’s self-love just doesn’t extend to women. If you’re not comfortable discussing this with friends, that’s totally fine, but wouldn’t it be great if it were less of a taboo?
There’s a growing movement encouraging women to embrace their bodies and celebrate their sexuality. Imagine if we could also foster an environment where women feel empowered to explore and appreciate their own desires. The beauty of self-pleasure is that every woman has her own unique approach; what works for one may not work for another, but that’s what makes it special. Understanding your body and recognizing that there’s nothing shameful about it can truly boost your self-confidence.
Everywhere you look, the media bombards us with messages about how we should look and feel. This manufactured idea of sexuality is so confusing and completely unrealistic. But you know what is real? You! Discovering how your authenticity can fuel your confidence and help you conquer the world is right within your reach.
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In summary, let’s celebrate our bodies and the joy of self-exploration. Masturbation Month is a reminder to embrace our sexuality, let go of shame, and enjoy the wonderful experience of understanding ourselves better.