If pop culture teaches us anything, it’s that songs by Rush can help men express their emotions. Think about it—movies like I Love You, Man and Freaks and Geeks, or even episodes of Togetherness, where a character launches into a discussion about the meaning of “Tom Sawyer” to cheer up a friend. It’s clear that Rush has a way of touching those deep feelings.
As Rush kicks off their 40th anniversary tour this month, it’s hard to believe how powerful their music can be. After nearly a decade of marriage, I’ve been trying to improve communication with my husband by suggesting we chat, while I’ve had all his Rush albums at my fingertips the whole time.
Want to connect better with your guy? Meet him at the 1056 mark—that’s Rush lingo for “halfway,” since 1056 is half of 2112. Here’s how you can use some classic tracks from Canada’s legendary prog-rock trio to spark meaningful conversations:
When You Want to Know What’s Bugging Him: Distant Early Warning
“You sometimes drive me crazy, but I worry about you.”
When You Want Him to Know What’s On Your Mind: The Trees
“There is unrest in the forest, there is trouble with the trees / For the maples want more sunlight, and the oaks ignore their pleas.”
When You Want to Drop Birthday Gift Hints: Red Barchetta
“Suddenly ahead of me, across the mountainside / A gleaming alloy air car, shoots towards me, two lanes wide.”
When You Want Him to Say ‘I Love You’: Closer to the Heart
“You can be the captain, I will draw the chart / Sailing into destiny, closer to the heart.”
When You Need to Discuss Commitment: Force Ten
“Tough times demand tough talk demand tough hearts demand tough songs …”
When You’re Testing His Knowledge of Your Opinion: Limelight
“All the world’s a stage and we are merely players, performers and portrayers …”
When You Want to Talk About Expanding Your Family: Vital Signs
“Everybody got mixed feelings, about the function and the form.”
When You Feel a Distance Growing: Subdivisions
“Any escape might help to smooth the unattractive truth.”
When You Miss the Old Days: Time Stand Still
“Freeze this moment a little bit longer, make each sensation a little bit stronger.”
When You Want Some Alone Time: Fly by Night
“The change of a season, is enough of a reason, to want to get away.”
When You’re Ready to Reconnect: Ghost of a Chance
“Somehow we found each other, somehow we have stayed, in a state of grace.”
When You’re Wanting a Dance: Freewill
“Genetic blends, with uncertain ends, on a fortune hunt that’s far too fleet.”
When You’d Like Him to Stop Playing Rush: The Spirit of Radio
“One likes to believe in the freedom of music.”
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In summary, using Rush songs as conversation starters can significantly improve communication in your marriage. Whether you’re discussing feelings, hinting at gifts, or reminiscing about the past, these tracks can set the mood for deeper connections.