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Why We’d Be Sad If Ben and Jen Split Up
Okay, but seriously, why do we even care? If anything, we should like them about as much as the common folk did the nobles in France back in the 18th century—not at all. But here’s the thing: they seem to have it all. Living in the Pacific Palisades, an exclusive coastal paradise where their buddies like the Spielbergs and Damons hang out, they’ve got three beautiful kids, massive wealth, power, talent, and careers that are thriving. Oh, and let’s not forget their stunning looks. From our vantage point—often through the glossy pages of magazines—they make life look like a breezy vacation rather than a slog through daily grind.
We know they’re just regular folks beneath the shiny surface. We get that they face their own struggles, just like the rest of us. So when we hear that their 10-year marriage might be on shaky ground, it genuinely bums us out.
I remember the first night my family and I moved to Santa Monica back in 2008, which is right next to the Brentwood neighborhood where Ben and Jen started their family. We were at a healthy Mexican restaurant—yes, that’s a thing in L.A.—when I noticed my then 1-year-old daughter, Plum, giggling at a stranger who was playing peek-a-boo with her. I did a double take and realized it was Jennifer Garner! Plum was so excited, clapping her hands as Jen made funny faces. Ben even came over to give one of their kids a lift, smiling in our direction. It was a reminder that they’re just a normal couple trying to enjoy a family dinner.
Over the years, I caught glimpses of them around the neighborhood. Jen would often be swarmed by paparazzi while shopping, and sometimes, you could see the stress on her face as she tried to dash away to her car. One time, my husband and I were on a much-needed date night at a local restaurant when we spotted them at a nearby table, all dressed up and holding hands, clearly trying to enjoy a moment together.
I’ve been rooting for them. I know many others have too. Even if you’ve never seen them in person, it’s hard to ignore the buzz around famous couples, especially in this age of constant media. When we hear about their ups and downs, it makes us wonder: if they can’t make it work, what hope do regular marriages have? They have everything—nannies, financial security, and all the resources to stay fit and attractive.
But maybe that’s the silver lining for us everyday folks. The muck and mire of life could be what actually keeps us together. We have to pull together and make it work, even when times are tough. Sure, we don’t get awards for enduring the rough patches, but maybe the rewards are even sweeter in the end. Because let’s face it, nothing worth having comes easy, right? Ben and Jen, I genuinely wish you both all the best.
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In summary, we care about Ben and Jen because they remind us of the struggles and triumphs of love, even when it seems like they have it all. Their story resonates with us, as we navigate our own relationships amidst life’s chaos.