Please Stop Apologizing for Not Being Perfect

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Hey there, fellow moms!

I’m over hearing your excuses—and I’m tired of making them myself. Why do we feel the need to explain our every flaw to friends and neighbors? Why do we try to justify things we can’t change or don’t even want to change?

No need to tell me that your daughter dressed herself today. I can see that she’s rocking that unique purple-striped, red polka-dot, pink-hearted outfit she put on backwards. Her hairstyle might not be the next viral sensation, but she’s happy, and so am I that you managed to run a comb through it. High fives for that!

Your home isn’t spotless? Shocking! You have kids! It’s not going to be clean for ages. Seriously, don’t feel like you need to explain that you’ve been busy or had guests over. I get it—my place looks like a toy tornado hit, and I’m just trying to create a clear path to the door.

Struggling to fit back into your pre-baby jeans? Really? Don’t sweat it (as I sneak a donut). Most of us don’t, either because we’re trying but haven’t succeeded yet, there’s a medical reason, or we just don’t care! Instead of stressing about your weight loss journey, let’s plan a walk together. We could both use the fresh air, and it gets the kids outside too.

Your bake sale cupcakes don’t match the Pinterest dream? You’re not alone! I gave up after a few tries and bought mine from the store. My kids are perfectly happy because the “ugly” ones at home are now free game. Even the best bakers have flops, so you don’t need to apologize for yours. It’s honestly annoying!

Your toddler just took off running through the neighborhood in the nude? At least he remembered his socks! We’ve all been there. Instead of feeling embarrassed and mumbling excuses, let’s just laugh about it. Kids are little escape artists, and I’m not judging you.

You don’t have to sneak out of our playdate because your 2-year-old is still figuring out social cues. Mine smacked someone last time, so we’re all in this together.

You don’t owe anyone an explanation for putting your child on medication or deciding to switch from homeschooling. You’re the mom—do what feels right for you. That’s your job, so don’t apologize for it.

So, next time you feel the urge to apologize for a messy car, an unkempt lawn, or your child running around without shoes—stop! I don’t want to hear it. The only thing you should be sorry for is trying to pretend you’re someone you’re not. I like you just the way you are!

And if you’re interested in learning about home insemination, check out this helpful resource from the CDC. You can also dive into topics like artificial insemination kits at BabyMaker, an authority in this area.

In a nutshell, let’s stop the cycle of apologizing for our imperfections. Embrace the chaos, and let’s support each other in the beautiful mess that is motherhood.