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Transitioning from ‘Mommy’ to ‘Mom’
I’ll never forget the moment my three boys first said “mama.” I eagerly watched as they formed the words, their little lips shaping “mm-mmaa mm-mmaa mm-mmaa” with determination. It was a small word that carried a world of emotion. Mama. That day felt like a declaration of love from them to me.
As they grew, “Mama” smoothly transitioned to “Mommy.” In those early years, Mama was there for diaper changes, late-night comforting, and countless cuddles as they drifted off to sleep. Mommy was the one who cooked meals (even if they mostly went uneaten), took them to storytime at the library, and cheered them on during their first bike rides. With Mommy around, they learned independence, taking the bus to school and exploring the world a bit more each day.
I can’t pinpoint the exact moment it happened, but one day, I suddenly transformed from “Mommy” to simply “Mom.” Maybe it was when my oldest couldn’t locate his baseball cleats or when my middle child asked for a ride to a friend’s house. Just like that, the title evolved.
I didn’t think much about it until recently. My youngest, five and a half years younger than his nearest brother, still calls me “Mommy” with sweet spontaneity. But I realize the day will come when he’ll shift to “Mom” too, likely in a more casual, maybe even embarrassed way as he navigates his preteen years.
That change is on the horizon. Soon, my role will shift from being the ever-present caregiver to a supportive figure in the background, allowing him the space to grow, succeed, and even stumble along the way. Being their Mom is a privilege I’ll hold dear forever, but I can’t help but feel a little nostalgic for the days of “Mommy.”
So for now, I soak in those moments when my youngest whispers, “I love you, Mommy.” I take a pause, let those words wrap around me, and cherish them deeply. I embrace him and respond, “Mommy loves you too.”
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In summary, the journey from “Mommy” to “Mom” is bittersweet. While I cherish every memory, I also look forward to the new chapters ahead.