Why Aging Makes You Better with Each Decade

home insemination Kit

When I was a teenager, I had a serious fear of older folks. In my youthful mind, anyone over 40 was ancient. They had weird smells, strange ways of speaking, and quirky behaviors that baffled me. But as I age, my perception of what it means to be “old” has thankfully shifted.

In my 20s, 55 felt ancient; then in my 30s, 60 seemed pretty old—until my mom hit that milestone, and suddenly it didn’t seem so bad. Approaching 40, I thought 70 was the new old, until I met a 75-year-old tennis player who could serve like a champ. Not long ago, I thought 80 was ancient, but then I started teaching computer skills to seniors at my local community college. One of my students was 89 and still eager to learn!

These experiences showed me that the people I once viewed as “old” are actually pretty amazing. Working with individuals in their 60s, 70s, and even 80s has taught me valuable lessons about aging and the kind of person I aspire to be. Here’s the scoop:

1. Lifelong Learning: Learning doesn’t stop as we age. I had a WWII vet ask me for help with Twitter and a woman in her 80s excitedly share her research on ancient Troy. They know that keeping their minds active is essential for staying alive and thriving.
2. Good Memories Galore: The older folks often reminisce about incredible moments, like the time they saw Paul McCartney in concert or their prom night. Their lives are filled with milestones, and even during tough times, they focus on the good, which is truly inspiring.
3. No Filter: As we get older, we start caring less about what others think. Many seniors speak their minds freely, sharing opinions they’ve kept bottled up for years. I can’t wait for that kind of freedom!
4. Resilience: They’ve faced life’s challenges and still get up every day with a smile. From sending kids to college to dealing with loss, their resilience is nothing short of remarkable. They inspire me to keep going, no matter what life throws my way.
5. Enduring Love: After decades of marriage, couples still hold hands and laugh together. Their relationships are filled with warmth, nostalgia, and a love that keeps growing. I’m so ready for that kind of connection in my life!

Society often tries to make us fear aging, urging us to fight against it. But I’m more afraid of a world that undervalues our elders. By the time I reach what society considers “old,” I hope to show the younger generation just how valuable aging can be. And with each passing year, I’m ready for my filter to fade away.

If you want to dive deeper into the journey of home insemination, check out this post on intracervicalinsemination.com. For those interested in the details of at-home insemination, Make a Mom has excellent resources. And if you’re considering IUI, Parents is a great place to start.

In summary, aging can be a beautiful journey filled with growth, love, and wisdom. Embracing it means celebrating all the ups and downs that come with life.