Why You Shouldn’t Worry About the “Monsters” at the Playground, Even When They’re Your Own

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I still chuckle when I think back to my earlier days as a parent, filled with a sense of superiority as I watched other kids misbehave on the playground. I’d look at those rambunctious little ones and wonder what their parents were thinking. A quick glare or a pointed reminder of the “right way” to use playground equipment was my go-to response. Those kids? To me, they were absolute monsters.

They were big—no, they were gigantic! Their sheer size made me worry they could easily take out any smaller child in their path. They were a wild force, climbing over everything, pushing the limits of what was safe and acceptable. And don’t even get me started on their reckless speed and agility. Who in their right mind would think climbing the outside of a slide in flip-flops was a good idea? Only a monster, of course!

Fast forward to last Saturday when I heard a familiar voice—“No honey, you can’t climb up there! It’s dangerous!” I recognized that tone; it was mine from years ago. But when I looked over, I realized those “monsters” were my own kids. And surprisingly, I wasn’t worried at all about their antics. Instead, I went over to chat with them about being role models for the younger kids and using the equipment safely.

The other mom shot me a look that mixed exasperation and gratitude. I totally understood where she was coming from, and I felt a sense of camaraderie. I’ve been there, and my perspective has changed.

As a parent, I’ve taken a few calculated risks myself, just like my kids. With time, I’ve grown more confident and aware of my limits. Watching your kids tackle new challenges and find their footing is just as exhilarating as when they were toddlers. Although they might seem reckless at times, they actually know more than we think.

Sure, my big kids might stumble now and then—who doesn’t?—but they’re not the “monsters” I once thought they were. They’re just exploring life a little more boldly. Now, those teenagers roaming the streets after school? Well, that’s a whole different story.

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In summary, as parents, we often worry about our kids’ safety, especially when they’re pushing boundaries. But rather than viewing them as monsters, let’s appreciate their confidence and curiosity. They’re just growing up, and it’s our job to guide them along the way.