8 Things to Get Ready for When You’re Expecting at 40

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Hey there, future mama! I had my first little one at 38 and my second at 40, and while I wouldn’t change a thing about waiting, there are definitely some unique challenges that come with being an “older” pregnant woman. The good news? More women are doing it, so you’re not alone. Here’s what to keep in mind:

1. You’ll Hear “Advanced Maternal Age” a Lot – Seriously, you might as well get it printed on a tote bag. You’ll become very familiar with this phrase by your first trimester. But don’t stress too much; many doctors think it’s an outdated term. More women are having healthy pregnancies after 35, so focus on your health and make sure you have a supportive doctor. If yours is making you feel anxious with this label, it might be time to switch things up.
2. Being the Oldest Mom in Class – Get ready for it. You’ll likely find yourself surrounded by younger moms in every class or group from here on out. It’s a little weird at first, but you’ll totally get used to it!
3. Bouncing Back Might Be Tougher – Yep, it’s likely to be a bit more challenging. Give yourself grace and remember that shedding those extra pounds might take some time. Focus on being gentle with yourself as you work towards your goals.
4. You’ll Be 60 When Your Kid Goes to College – Accept it now; it’s just a fact of life. And when they hit 30, you’ll be 70. So what? Let it roll off your back and enjoy the ride.
5. Younger Moms Will Seek Your Wisdom – It’s funny how people assume older moms are experts. Embrace this! I like to share some hilarious, nonsensical advice just to keep things light.
6. The Amnio Talk – Chances are your OB/GYN will mention genetic testing early on. My advice? Consider getting the amnio. Sure, it might be stressful, but it’s the most comprehensive test available. I skipped it with my first at 40 and ended up wishing I hadn’t. Weigh your options and choose what feels right for you, but remember, knowledge can be peace of mind.
7. Feigned Excitement Over Your Age – “Wow, you’re 40? That’s fantastic!” Expect a lot of enthusiasm from people. It can feel a bit over the top, but you’ll learn to roll with it.
8. Grandkid Pressure is Real – You might find yourself worrying about when your child will have kids. I mean, what if they decide to wait until they’re 40 too? Yikes! The eye-rolling you did when your mom talked about grandkids will definitely come back around.

For more insights on pregnancy and preparing for this journey, check out Healthline. And if you’re exploring the option of at-home insemination, here’s a great resource on artificial insemination kits. For some more tips, don’t miss this post on intracervical insemination.

In summary, being pregnant at 40 can bring its own set of challenges and joys. Embrace the journey, take care of yourself, and remember, you’re not alone!