A Confession About Social Media

Let me share a little confession: I’m not the best at social media. I mean, I have a personal Facebook, a professional one, a Twitter account, and an Instagram, but keeping up with them feels like a full-time job. The truth is, my life is a whirlwind with a toddler who keeps me on my toes, an unpredictable schedule, and a lot of chaos. I try to limit my screen time when I’m with my daughter because I want to be fully present for her, and let’s be honest, she doesn’t need to see the endless memes and drama that pop up in my feed.

Feeling Neglected

Recently, a close friend of mine brought up how they felt neglected because I hadn’t been liking or commenting on their posts. Honestly, it stung a bit. Just because I don’t hit “like” on your latest pic or comment on your updates doesn’t mean I’m upset or uninterested. It’s usually just me being scatterbrained or missing it entirely. I promise, my lack of social media interaction is not a reflection of my feelings towards you—it’s just life getting in the way.

The Changing Landscape of Connection

I totally get that social media has changed how we connect. When you post about your new house or share a fun moment, it’s a way to feel connected to friends and family. We all crave that instant recognition, and I have those same feelings too. It’s tough when you pour your heart into a post and hear nothing back. But let’s be real: the idea that a “like” equals love or support is a bit misguided. It’s become this high school mentality where we feel like we need to fit in or be accepted. And honestly, I’m over it.

Beyond the Digital World

I genuinely care about you and your life—your achievements, your kids, your dreams. But the pressure of social media can be overwhelming. “Likes” have become so routine that they’ve lost their meaning. Just because I didn’t like or comment doesn’t mean I don’t care. Sometimes I’m just busy—playing with my daughter, cooking, or working. My social media silence isn’t about you; it’s about my chaotic life.

Finding a Middle Ground

So, how about we find a middle ground? Instead of relying on Facebook to keep up with each other’s lives, let’s communicate in a more personal way. Text, call, or meet up for coffee—whatever works, as long as it’s meaningful. I value you and want to show you that I care beyond the digital world.

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In Summary

Let’s not let social media define our friendships. I’m here for you in real life, and I hope we can keep our connection strong, no matter how busy things get.