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What I Did with 45 Hours of Me Time
Hey there! So, let me tell you about this unexpected 45-hour stretch of alone time I got recently. It was a total surprise. I was all set to drive my niece and her adorable baby to visit her dad, my brother-in-law, in Nashville. But, as life would have it, plans changed, and suddenly I was free! I quickly canceled the dog’s boarding and bath, my 8-year-old was already at her grandparents’, and I waved goodbye to my husband as he headed off on a business trip.
And just like that, it hit me: I was completely alone.
No one was around to call my name, ask me where their socks were, or wonder when dinner would be served. I could binge-watch any show without worrying about whether it involved aliens, John Wayne, or other war dramas. Plus, I could leave the TV blaring all night with infomercials while I lounged on clean sheets in the guest room, snacks ready on the pillow for midnight cravings.
I could whip up chocolate chip cookies loaded with walnuts since my daughter isn’t a fan of them, and I could toss in all the chocolate-covered caramel pieces I wanted because someone else is allergic. And guess what? I could devour every last cookie without sharing!
Dinner? Popcorn. Dessert? Cheesecake. I settled in for a marathon of NCIS with my laptop in my lap, wearing my comfy pajama pants and a tank top—no bra needed because who cares?
I daydreamed about indulging in chick flicks, sleeping until noon, and luxuriating in long bubble baths. It felt like the ultimate fantasy for a 52-year-old woman raising her granddaughter, caring for her elderly dad, and managing a husband who travels a lot.
Just imagine! Reading a whole chapter of a book without interruptions, no hunting for lost socks, no kids asking why about everything. I started plotting my time like a military operation, ready to embrace every moment while pretending to feel a twinge of guilt about enjoying my solitude.
Once I had the house to myself, I plopped down on the couch, opened my laptop, and turned on the Hallmark movies I had recorded. I thought I was ready for a cozy night in.
But after just four hours, I woke up with a dead laptop, a stiff neck, and no idea how I had dozed off. I couldn’t help but call my daughter, asking if she wanted to come home early because, let’s be real, we had cookies to bake and a spa day to plan together.
So, there you have it! Sometimes, a little alone time can turn into a dreamy retreat, but family is what makes it all worthwhile. And if you’re looking to explore home insemination, check out one of our other blog posts. You can also find great resources at Mount Sinai’s Infertility Resources for pregnancy and home insemination. Plus, don’t forget to check out Make a Mom’s Fertility Tips for some fertility tips.