6 Phrases That Transformed My Parenting Journey

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Throughout my 48 years, I’ve been labeled as many things, but “easy-going” isn’t one of them. I tend to worry, overthink, and stress out. However, a few years back, I had what felt like a lightbulb moment: Will this really matter in five years?

Consider the impact of that one simple question. It gives us the freedom to not sweat the small stuff. Those six words reshaped my perspective on parenting. Here’s what I discovered:

1. The Sugary Popsicle

That sugary Popsicle at a birthday party? Sure, we all know how vital it is to maintain a healthy diet. But if your kid doesn’t have allergies, that one sugary treat isn’t going to harm them. Stick to organic juice pops at home if that’s your choice, but remember, that one Popsicle won’t make a dent in their health five years from now—not even a smidge.

2. Staying Up Late

The night your 10-year-old is begging to stay up and catch the end of the big game? I totally get it—you’re concerned about how tired he’ll be at school the next day. And yes, he probably will be a bit groggy. But let’s keep in mind, we’re talking about a young kid, not a high schooler prepping for the SAT. A single day of yawning through class won’t change anything in five years.

3. Taking Off the Training Wheels

That nerve-wracking moment when your child insists on taking off the training wheels? Accidents can happen, and sometimes little issues escalate, like when my friend Alex got a splinter and ended up needing emergency surgery. However, if we’re talking about a typical scraped knee, rest assured your child will hardly remember it five years down the line.

I’m not saying you should abandon your core parenting values. I’m not suggesting you get rid of all your healthy food and stock up on junk. And I definitely don’t need to reference the American Academy of Pediatrics to emphasize the value of good sleep for kids.

What I am suggesting is to take a deep breath and allow yourself to relax a bit. Parenting isn’t this delicate tower of cards that will topple over if we let our guard down occasionally. Honestly, it would be both disheartening and alarming to think that one Popsicle or one late night could erase all the love and effort we pour into raising our precious children. So, the next time you find yourself in a “Should I or shouldn’t I?” dilemma, ask yourself: Will it matter in five years?

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Summary

This article highlights the transformative power of the question, “Will it matter in five years?” in parenting. It encourages parents to ease their worries over small issues, reinforcing that occasional indulgences and minor parenting decisions will not significantly impact their child’s future.