5 Insights I’ve Gained from Following My Daughter on Pinterest

My daughter, much to her dismay, doesn’t have a cell phone—believe it or not, I’m the last parent of a soon-to-be sixth grader to hold out! She also isn’t allowed on social media, which she finds incredibly frustrating, especially when it comes to my rules on PG-13 movies and appropriate school attire. At 11, she’s eager to grow up, but I keep reminding her that there’s plenty of time for all that, and not enough time to just be a kid.

That said, I want to give her some freedom to explore. Last summer, I took her to the salon for some bright red highlights, she can now stay home alone, and I mostly let her pick her own reading material. So when she asked to join Pinterest, despite my social media restrictions, I agreed—on the condition that I could follow her.

I’m so grateful I did! As she grows, I realize I only see a glimpse of who she’s becoming. Occasionally, I catch sight of her life beyond our home, but following her on Pinterest has revealed so much more about her.

1. Her Style is Impressive

As a baby, I splurged on adorable outfits from Janie and Jack and Mini Boden. Until she was six, she refused to wear pants or shorts, preferring twirly tutus. Then, in first grade, it was all about jeans. Now, she’s all about shorts and tees, especially if they’re athletic in style. Dresses? Only for special occasions! Lately, we’ve been butting heads over leggings, as all her friends wear them to school, but I’m not ready for that look yet. However, her Pinterest boards reveal her flair for style through fancy nail art, cool hairstyles, and even dreamy room designs. She has an artistic side that shines through her pins, and I just wish she’d channel that into her clothing choices!

2. She’s More Mature Than I Realize

I’m fully aware she’s growing up, but the girl I see at home is still all about her collection of plush toys rather than boys or music. Yet, I catch glimpses of her future self when she dances with friends or texts away on her iPod. She still crawls into bed for morning hugs, but her Pinterest boards tell a different story. One board dedicated to “Teenager Posts” features quotes that make me chuckle, like one about getting random bursts of motivation at 3 a.m. to clean her room. I hope she finds that inspiration someday!

3. But Still Not as Brave as She Thinks

Another pin struck me: “Hearing noises when home alone and just accepting that you’re going to die.” After much convincing, I let her stay home while I take her brother to gymnastics. Now I’m not so sure she’s as fearless as she believed!

4. We Share Movie Preferences

Her movie board is packed with The Avengers series, which I knew she loved. But I was surprised to discover she also pinned Pitch Perfect and Legally Blonde—films I introduced her to that we enjoyed together. This shared interest has extended to books, too, and we’ve started reading the same ones to discuss them. It’s like our own little book club, and I cherish these moments of connection.

5. Her Humor is Hilarious

While she often rolls her eyes at my jokes, her Pinterest reveals a funnier side. She enjoys the same memes I do, like Grumpy Cat and various “You Had One Job” posts. As we head into the teenage years, I know we’ll face challenges, but if we can bond over funny content like “28 Cats Having a Way Worse Day Than You,” I believe we’ll navigate it together.

In conclusion, following my daughter on Pinterest has opened up a new window into her world. It’s a reminder that while she’s growing up, she’s still my little girl at heart.

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Summary: Following my daughter on Pinterest has revealed her evolving personality, from her impressive sense of style to her shared movie interests and humor. It’s a beautiful reminder of her growth while still appreciating her childhood.