10 Comments That Drive Working Moms Up the Wall

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Let’s be honest: when you’re a working mom, there’s no shortage of well-meaning (but ultimately annoying) comments flying your way. Whether it’s advice from people who think they know better or unsolicited opinions on your parenting choices, some phrases just hit differently. Here are ten things you should probably avoid saying to a working mom unless you want a side-eye or a full-on eye roll.

1. “You’re so lucky to get a break!” Break? Really? If you think putting on pantyhose at 6:30 a.m. to sit in an office is a break, we need to have a chat. I’m missing my kids every second I’m away, thank you very much.
2. “You’re missing out on so much!” Yes, I know! It’s like a constant reminder that I’m not there for every little milestone. But hey, we all miss out on stuff; that’s life with only 24 hours in a day.
3. “You look exhausted!” Wow, thanks for that observation! If you think my tired appearance is going to make me feel better, think again. If you’re not offering a spa day, maybe keep that thought to yourself.
4. “Do you really have to work?” Not your business! Maybe I have to work, or maybe I love what I do. Either way, that kind of judgment is just plain rude.
5. “I read that kids in childcare are more aggressive.” Seriously? I’m well aware of the studies, and they don’t tell the whole story. How about we skip the unsolicited parenting advice?
6. “Don’t you miss them?” Of course, I do! Unless you’re saying you wouldn’t miss your kids, that question suggests I might not care—and that’s just not true.
7. “You must be so organized!” Well, let me tell you, if you were in my shoes, you’d learn pretty quick how to juggle everything. Being a working mom is tough, and organization is key to survival.
8. “It must be so hard for you.” Yep, it is! But that doesn’t mean I have a team of helpers at home. I’m still doing all the cooking and cleaning, just like when I was a stay-at-home mom.
9. “I couldn’t let someone else raise my children.” Excuse me? I’m raising my kids by working hard to provide for them. What’s your plan—do you think you’re the only one who can do it all?
10. “Women should be at home with their kids.” Nah. Women should be wherever they want to be, whether that’s at home, in the office, or somewhere else entirely.

At the end of the day, we’re all doing our best as moms, whether we work outside the home or not. Let’s lift each other up instead of tearing each other down. Everyone has their struggles, and we should respect that. So, next time you’re tempted to say something like this, just pause and think—because support goes a long way.

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Summary:

Working moms often face irritating comments that can make their lives more challenging. Highlighting the importance of respect and understanding, this article lists common phrases that should be avoided and encourages a supportive dialogue among all moms.