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To All the Non-Adventurous Moms
If I had to pick a label for my parenting style, I’d definitely be rocking the “non-adventurous mom” title. I’m not a fan of camping, fishing feels like a snooze-fest, and hiking? No thanks—way too much sweat involved. Honestly, I’d prefer lounging in the sun with a magazine rather than taking a dip in that freezing pool.
Now, if you’re one of those adventurous moms—yay for you! I genuinely hope you have a blast on your camping trips, conquer those hiking trails, and manage to bait your kid’s fishing line like a pro. But don’t expect to find me joining you, nor will I judge you for skipping the latest kid flick at the theater (I’ll be somewhere with air conditioning and popcorn, just so you know).
I really don’t mind how you choose to spend time with your kids. As long as you’re enjoying quality moments together, you’re doing an amazing job as a mom. I’m not sure when being a non-adventurous mom became something to frown upon. It doesn’t mean I’m dull; I’m funny, caring, and a bit silly—just ask my kids; they think I’m pretty awesome!
Let’s set the record straight: not being adventurous doesn’t mean I’m withholding exciting experiences from my kids. Sure, I might sit out some excursions, but that doesn’t make me an absent mom. I have a solid support network and value my time to recharge.
I’m actively engaged with my children. Our non-adventurous moments are epic. I always dominate at staring contests, can bust a move on the coffee table that leaves them in stitches, and whip up goofy songs that they beg me to sing on repeat. And let me tell you, I am a fierce competitor in Memory games. I even tell spooky tales by candlelight while we make s’mores—kids totally dig that!
There are countless activities moms can do with their kids, and just because I skip the adventurous half doesn’t mean my kids are missing out. We travel, craft paper airplanes, build forts, blow bubbles, color, toss balls around, swim, concoct potions, construct train tracks, and play pretend. My kids are thriving. They’re funny, sweet, and full of compassion. They adore their non-adventurous mom, and when they want me to join in on something outside my comfort zone, sometimes I do, and that’s more than enough for them.
I know I’m not alone in this. Many non-adventurous moms want others to see that we’re not short-changing our kids. We’re not boring; we’re creating cherished memories that are just as valuable as those camping and fishing trips. It’s all about being present with them.
So here’s to us, the moms who prefer to dodge mosquitoes, roast marshmallows on the stove, and buy our fish from the local market. May you love, accept, and celebrate us for the fantastic mothers we are!
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Remember, it’s all about the quality time we share, whether we’re adventuring or staying cozy at home.