Heading to College: Your Ultimate Guide to Dorm Room Shopping

Welcome to the second installment of our “Heading to College” series, where we help you prepare your teens for their big transition. We kicked things off in June by discussing essential conversations to have with your soon-to-be freshman and what contributes to their success in the first year. Now, let’s tackle the logistics of moving them into college, drawing on insights from seasoned parents who have been through it all.

Summer is flying by, and it’s almost time for your teen to head off to college. It’s perfectly normal to feel a twinge of panic. In just a few weeks, your high school grad needs to squeeze in doctor visits, stock up on dorm essentials, and maybe even hear some of the most important advice you’ll ever give. There’s a mountain of paperwork to tackle, from registering for selective service to renewing passports. Plus, they need to sort out credit cards and meal plans.

Yet, instead of checking things off the list, your teen is spending time with friends, assuring you it’ll all work out. Mornings are a blur, with them rolling out of bed just in time to dash off to work, and before you know it, another day has passed without completing a single task. You’re left to figure out how to transport their life hundreds of miles away, and they seem completely unfazed. It’s enough to make you feel like panic is a totally reasonable reaction.

But take a breath—it will all work out. Even the most eager freshmen experience mixed feelings about the upcoming changes. Many cope by exhibiting less-than-ideal behavior and sidestepping their new responsibilities. While tensions may rise and threats may be exchanged, rest assured that everything will eventually fall into place.

As they procrastinate on forms and dodge dental appointments, you’ll find they can still muster some enthusiasm for their dorm setup. Here are six tips for a successful back-to-school shopping experience:

1. Understand Your Space

Every dorm room is unique. Before busting out your credit card, have your teen gather as much information as possible about their new living space. Check if the school provides room dimensions and layouts on their website. Knowing details like how large the room is, what appliances are allowed, and what furniture is already provided can save a lot of hassle later. Coordinate with roommates to avoid duplicates of shared items like microwaves and mini-fridges.

2. Score Deals, Don’t Pay Full Price

Outfitting a college student can cost around $1,000, but savvy shoppers can find ways to save. Major retailers like Target, Bed Bath & Beyond, and JCPenney often have sales during the summer, along with online discounts and coupons.

3. Avoid Shipping Costs

Buying dorm items and then paying to ship them is so last century. Many retailers now offer free shipping directly to campus. With services like Amazon Student, college kids can enjoy free two-day shipping on most items. Stores like Bed Bath & Beyond also allow you to order online and pick up in-store near your teen’s college.

4. Discuss Medications Before Packing

While kids may know their prescription meds, over-the-counter options can be tricky. Help them build a small first aid kit with essentials like pain relievers and Band-Aids. Make sure they understand how to use these items properly.

5. Invest in Quality

College students can be tough on their belongings, and the temptation might be to skimp on quality. However, investing in durable items like bed linens and towels can save you from frequent shopping trips in the future.

6. Don’t Buy Everything on the List

Just because the college or a store gives you a dorm essentials list doesn’t mean you need to stick to it. These lists can be generic and may not reflect what your student actually requires. Sit down with your teen to discuss their lifestyle and priorities. For instance, some may find that they don’t need a printer because they can use campus resources, while others might benefit from a coffee maker to save on café visits.

It’s all too easy to overbuy, especially with this being the final back-to-school shopping spree. Remember, you’ve been preparing your child for this moment for 18 years. This shopping trip is just one more day in the grand journey of their life.

As you navigate the aisles, you may feel a surge of emotion, thinking that a particular item could ease your worries. But the truth is, no item can turn back time or make this transition less daunting.

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Summary

Preparing your teen for college involves more than just shopping for dorm essentials. Understanding their new living space, finding deals, discussing medications, and investing in quality items are key steps. Keep the lines of communication open with your child to ensure a smooth transition as they embark on this exciting journey.