10 Things I Won’t Tolerate Now That I’m a Mom

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Last night, I set down a book I was reading with a sigh of disappointment. I picked it up at a flea market, thinking it would be a fun summer read set in my beloved Maine, but it turned out to be a snooze-fest. I made it through a third of the book before I had to admit defeat; the plot was dull, and the characters were just unlikable. As a busy mom of three little ones, my reading time is precious, and I refuse to waste it on lackluster stories.

Reflecting on my life as a mom, I’ve realized there are several things I used to put up with that I won’t tolerate anymore:

1. Poorly written books. If your opening chapters don’t grab me, I’m out. I don’t have time for pointless descriptions about beach bags!
2. Subpar coffee. Everyone has their own taste, but I need my coffee to be robust and smooth. Weak or bitter just won’t cut it anymore.
3. Snobbery. I don’t care about your fancy car or designer clothes. Kindness and an open heart are what matter most to me.
4. Stiff jeans. Regular jeans without any stretch? No thanks! I need my clothes to be as comfy as possible while I chase after my kids.
5. Cheap underwear. I’ve carried three babies, and I deserve quality support. I’m willing to skip those trendy clothes to invest in good undergarments.
6. Fake food. I crave the real deal—no fake butter, cheese, or sugar for me! Real food is where it’s at.
7. Cleaning for no one to notice. I refuse to spend my precious time on tasks like ironing or cleaning behind the fridge. I have better things to do, like dancing with my kids!
8. Body image issues. Having kids gave me a new perspective on my body. I’m done comparing myself to others—my body has important jobs, and that’s what matters.
9. Guilt over not pleasing everyone. It’s impossible to make everyone happy at once, and I’ve come to understand that it’s not my job to try.
10. Uncomfortable shoes. I love cute footwear, but comfort is key now. If my toes hurt, I can’t get anything done!

Motherhood has taught me to set boundaries in ways I never thought possible. Sure, I’ll endure the occasional loud kids’ song in the car or a sick child snuggled up in my bed, but at least I know what I won’t tolerate, and that feels empowering.

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In summary, motherhood has reshaped my perspective on what I’ll tolerate in life. I’m focused on what truly matters and have let go of the unnecessary burdens.