Why My Kids Are in a Summer Day Program While I Work from Home

When I first envisioned the idea of working from home, I had all sorts of idyllic scenes playing in my head. I pictured myself whipping up delicious cookies and cupcakes for my kids to devour after school. I imagined spontaneous outings to the park, splash pads, and beaches. I thought I’d be able to juggle work and family seamlessly, spending my summers watching my kids play quietly together.

Spoiler alert: I was totally mistaken.

My first months of remote work coincided with summer break, and I thought it would be the perfect chance to bond with my boys. I envisioned less screen time and more outdoor adventures, maybe even some crafty activities. But reality hit hard. By early August, I was already plotting for the next summer to avoid a repeat of what I now call “The Summer of Total Chaos.”

And just to be clear, I don’t feel guilty at all about letting them spend their days at our local community center while I focus on work. Here’s why:

No More Constant Food Requests

Last summer, I found myself consumed by meal planning—three meals, two snacks, and dessert. By the end of the day, I was so food fatigued that I didn’t even want to eat myself. This year? Breakfast is cereal, and dinner is whatever I can make without heating up the kitchen.

Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder

Last year, by day’s end, I was ready to lose it. The endless chatter about video games was too much. This summer, I get to hear all the fun stories about dodgeball, field trips, and the great carrot incident between my two boys, which is so much better!

Craft Time and Sports Are Better Left to the Pros

I’m not exactly a crafty mom, and my attempts at engaging the kids in arts and crafts were met with resistance. I’ve learned to leave those activities to the professionals who can truly inspire my kids.

Less Screen Time

I tried to create a screen time schedule last summer, but it failed miserably. My kids figured out that the more they asked for snacks, the quicker they could get back to their video games. This year, we’ve cut back to just two hours of screen time after dinner on weekends, and it’s been a relief.

Quality Moments Mean More

Last summer was filled with arguments and frustration. By the end of the day, we were all just waiting for Dad to come home to break the tension. This year, we’ve had spontaneous fun days, like when Grandma visited and we took the kids out for toys and local sights. It’s been a blast!

Working from home hasn’t gone exactly as I pictured, but I’m not surprised. With kids, plans are often derailed. I’m perfectly happy letting others handle the enrichment activities, so I can finally get around to baking those cookies I’ve been dreaming about!

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Summary:

Navigating working from home with kids during the summer can be a challenge. By sending them to a local day program, I’ve found freedom from constant food requests, reduced screen time, and the chance to enjoy quality moments together. It’s a win-win for both me and my kids.