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Marriage Advice That Stuck with Me
Before I tied the knot, my dad shared a piece of marriage advice that really stuck with me. He said, “Make it a priority to spend at least 20 minutes each day just focused on each other. No matter how hectic life gets, carve out time to truly connect.” I paused for a moment, but it instantly resonated.
I had already noticed how busy weeks could create a distance between us, even when we were physically together. We’d often collapse into bed after a long day, finally looking at each other without any distractions—no screens, no stress, no plans. It was in those quiet moments that we truly saw one another and exchanged that simple but powerful “Hi!”—realizing we’d been somewhat disconnected for hours. Too many of those days in a row left me feeling a bit empty.
On the other hand, I remembered how wonderful our relationship felt during vacations—when just being together was the whole point. Even mundane moments like waiting in an airport or taking a long drive felt special when it was just the two of us and the world around us. Those times on the couch, where we’d switch off the TV and set aside our devices, just embracing each other and taking a deep breath, felt perfect.
Questions and Reassurances
I knew my dad’s advice was solid, but of course, my inner child had to ask a few more questions. “Does having dinner together count?” I inquired. “Nope. You should be focused on each other,” he replied. “But what if we can’t hit the full 20 minutes? Some days, it feels impossible.” He reassured me, “Then try for 15, 10, or even 5. It’s not ideal, but it’s still better than nothing.” I nodded, realizing how valuable this could be.
Passing Along the Wisdom
Now that so many of my friends are getting married, I’ve been passing along my dad’s wisdom, and they all seem to get it right away. It’s fascinating how this simple idea can help strengthen a marriage or inspire couples to really engage with each other, even if just for a moment. If you’re curious about more tips and ideas for relationships, you might want to check out this excellent resource on pregnancy and home insemination.
Conclusion
To wrap it up, sometimes all it takes is a few minutes of focused attention to make a big difference in a relationship.