Pacifiers Aren’t Just For Babies

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Amid the hustle and bustle of daily life, I often find myself pondering the question: Why? It’s a natural instinct for us humans, isn’t it? We’re wired to sift through the chaos, seeking meaning and order. Yet, despite my relentless questioning, I often realize that the answers elude me, existing in a realm I can’t quite grasp. As the Bhagavad Gita wisely points out, “You will never untangle the circumstances that brought you to this moment.”

In times of uncertainty, it’s common for people to turn to faith, religion, or even unhealthy habits to cope with the weight of the unknown. I’ve been there, too—wondering if it was “meant to be” or thinking, “Forget it, I need a drink.” These are all ways I’ve tried to soothe the bewildering pain that seems to grow more complex with each passing year.

Just last week, my daughter, Lily, decided it was time to part with her remaining pacifiers. She clearly no longer needed them, and I didn’t feel the need to concoct a story about growing up. But why is it so wrong to seek comfort? We all crave something to help us through the dark patches. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t want a pacifier every now and then!

However, Lily’s decision to share her pacifiers wasn’t driven by shame; it was out of pure kindness. She wanted to donate them to babies in need at the hospital, with no expectations of reward—just the joy of giving. In her own way, she embodies the spirit of a pacifier: a comforting presence and a peacemaker. That warms my heart and soothes my weary soul.

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In summary, pacifiers may be seen as childish, but the comfort they provide transcends age. We all need something to soothe us during tough times, and sometimes, the act of giving can be the greatest comfort of all.