Finding Balance: The Struggles of Health and Parenthood

The other day, I was chatting with my friend, Jenna, about our ongoing struggles with health issues. We both juggle full-time jobs and young kids, so it’s no surprise that our well-being often takes a backseat. “You know,” she mentioned while navigating morning traffic, “I dealt with excruciating pain for months simply because making a doctor’s appointment felt like too much hassle.”

I can relate. I recently went for my first annual checkup in three years, and the doctor asked if I had any recent MRIs or even a simple pap smear. Nope! Laughing, I thought—who has time for that? She handed me a pile of referrals and prescriptions for tests I know I should do, but they’ve just ended up stuffed in my bag.

The Balancing Act

Balancing work and kid duties really does a number on our health. For instance, if you’re anything like me, you’re always busy taking your kids to the pediatrician for everything from fevers to stomach bugs. If I leave work early for their appointments, it makes it even trickier to squeeze in a visit for myself later.

Sleep? That’s a luxury. A friend of mine, Sarah, had a relentless cough for months. When I asked how she was sleeping, she shrugged. As a single freelancer, she often finds herself working until the wee hours just to meet deadlines. Eventually, she ended up with walking pneumonia, all because finding time to see a doctor and rest was impossible.

Exercise and Time Constraints

And then there’s exercise. I used to love getting in a good workout! If there were just a few more hours in the day, I’d be all for it. But with my early work schedule, I’m usually in bed before I can even think about fitting in a yoga session. Another mom I know, Lisa, simply doesn’t even attempt it. “I’m up at six with the kids and work until 11 PM. There’s literally no time to exercise—the work just has to get done,” she told me.

Americans are clocking in about 47 hours a week, while other countries average just under 35. We spend nearly an hour commuting daily, and in big cities, that can mean even more time stuck in traffic. Add in all the hours spent on childcare, housework, and mundane tasks like filling out camp forms, and it’s no wonder parents have little time left for self-care.

The Unique Challenges for Mothers

For mothers, it’s even worse—high job stress can increase the risk of cardiovascular disease by 40 percent compared to those with lower stress, according to Working Mother.

And let’s not pretend that stay-at-home parents have it easy either. I remember my time as a stay-at-home mom, where fitting in exercise or doctor visits was just as challenging. It’s not just a working versus stay-at-home issue; it’s a bigger cultural problem. We drive everywhere, school drop-offs are early, and extracurriculars run late. Cooking healthy meals is tough, especially when fresh food costs so much. In today’s economy, many of us feel the pressure to work long hours to keep our jobs.

New Year, New Resolutions

Every fall, I make resolutions, viewing the new school year as a fresh start. This year, I’m committed to squeezing in a few minutes of yoga daily, cooking more meals from scratch, and finally making that MRI appointment, if I can ever find the time. If it means cutting back on work or letting my kids have more screen time, so be it. I love having it all, but I love my health too.

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Conclusion

In summary, balancing work and parenting often leads to neglecting our own health. While it’s challenging for everyone, mothers face unique stresses that can impact their well-being. Finding time for self-care is crucial, and it might mean adjusting priorities to ensure we remain healthy while managing our responsibilities.