5 Things I’m Loving About My Late 30s

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You know, reaching your late 30s brings a surprising clarity. After decades of ups and downs, I’ve discovered that all those challenges—like the time I navigated through a divorce or battled panic attacks—have actually shaped me into someone who knows how to handle life’s curveballs. With two pregnancies, a miscarriage, and the chaos of baby and toddler years behind me, I’ve learned to embrace my experiences.

As I approach 38, I realize that stress is part of life, but I’ve also figured out how to manage it. Instead of bottling up my feelings, I choose to acknowledge them. It’s all about feeling, accepting, and moving on.

Here’s what I’m really digging about aging and what I hope to carry into my 40s:

1. Clarity on What I Want: From my comfy boy shorts to my ideal Saturday night (which usually involves a cozy blanket and a good book), I’ve learned to appreciate my preferences. I’m no longer trying to fit a mold, and honestly, it doesn’t take much to make me happy—a scoop of vegan mint chocolate chip ice cream is often enough.
2. Boundaries: I’ve gotten really good at saying no to things I don’t want. Horror movies? Nope, not for me. Text or email me instead of calling, please. And when it comes to dinner time with the kids, I’m all about enjoying my meal in peace after serving them.
3. Coping Mechanisms: I’ve started being more open about my anxiety, which has been liberating. Instead of wishing my anxious tendencies away, I’ve accepted them as part of who I am. Writing has become a vital outlet for me, and I always keep my therapist’s number handy.
4. Body Acceptance: Over the past few years, I’ve come to terms with my body in a way I never thought possible. Sure, I have my insecurities, but I’ve realized that being healthy is what truly matters, not fitting into a specific size. Crash diets? No thanks. It’s all about health and acceptance now.
5. The Myth of Perfection: I had this picture-perfect idea of adulthood that hasn’t quite materialized. We rent our home, can’t afford lavish vacations, and still drive our trusty old Honda Civic. But, you know what? I’ve learned that perfection is overrated. It’s about counting your blessings and making the most of what you have.

Every year seems to get better, and while I’m not thrilled about gray hairs or the aches that come with aging, I’m genuinely looking forward to turning 40. For me, getting older is about resilience, letting go, and kicking some serious butt.

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In summary, embracing my late 30s has been a journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and resilience. I’ve learned what I want, what I don’t, and how to navigate life’s ups and downs with grace.