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The Importance of Having Fun With Your Partner
So, a friend of mine, Jamie, recently shared her fun-filled date night with her husband. They enjoyed some cocktails at a rooftop bar while soaking up a stunning sunset. Afterward, they rented bikes and cruised along the river before grabbing dinner at another spot. “It was such a blast!” she exclaimed. “We haven’t done anything that exciting in ages!”
This conversation got me reflecting on how little joy I experience with my own husband, Mark. We’re like the managers of a small business, each with our own duties to ensure everything runs smoothly. Sure, the kids are thriving, we manage our bills, and life is generally okay, but the playful side of our relationship seems to have vanished since parenthood arrived. Every moment we spend together feels like time taken away from the kids, and we already feel guilty about our babysitting schedule. Plus, let’s not forget the added expense of going out! But the biggest hurdle? There’s always something more pressing on the to-do list: flu shots, back-to-school shopping, taxes—you name it. It’s tough to switch off that mental checklist and just have fun like we used to.
Lately, though, I’ve realized we really need to prioritize fun for the sake of our relationship—and, by extension, for our kids. When you choose a life partner, you look for shared values, intelligence, and a sense of humor. Those are the foundations of a solid relationship. But fun? That’s the secret glue that keeps everything together.
Like Jamie, I suspect that way too much time has passed since Mark and I last did something playful. We rarely indulge in uncontrollable laughter or try new things. Parenting tends to make us play it safe, always focused on the next meal or chore instead of relishing each other’s company. If we don’t hit the pause button occasionally to reconnect and remember what we love about each other, we risk becoming mere coworkers in this efficient little operation called family life. And let’s be real—that’s not how anyone wants to live.
So, here’s my new mission: find fun activities to do with Mark. Just kidding! I already know what we could do: sip cocktails on a rooftop, ride bikes, and enjoy a nice dinner together. Maybe we’ll even wrap up the night with a poker game in Vegas.
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In summary, don’t let the daily grind overshadow the joy of being with your partner. Make time for fun; you’ll find it strengthens your relationship and brings back the connection you once had.