A Huge Shoutout to All the Awesome Dads Who Nail Fatherhood

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Let’s keep it real. Some days, my partner Jake and I barely exchange a word. With two kiddos, a full-time gig, a side hustle, and not much support with the kids or house chores, we’re juggling a lot. Our life is filled with joy—our boys bring us more happiness than we ever imagined. But honestly, it often feels like parenting’s endless demands leave us with little time for ourselves or each other.

When I cradled my wailing newborn in my arms eight years ago, I had doubts that my previous life could ever survive the chaos. Yet here we are, several years into this parenting journey, and I can confidently say that despite the exhaustion and time crunch, our marriage has emerged stronger than ever.

It’s not all sunshine and rainbows, of course. I have my list of pet peeves about Jake (right now, I’m trying to get him to ditch that darn cell phone, and it would be nice if he could just take out the trash without a reminder). I’m sure he has his own gripes about me—mainly that I need to stop nagging! But when I reflect on how well we navigate parenting together, it’s clear that we make a great team. Jake is just as engaged with the kids as I am. He genuinely connects with them and is always ready to step in, day or night. His fantastic dad skills are not only impressive—they’re pretty darn attractive too! (And yes, our intimacy is thriving amid the chaos of parenthood).

I know there are plenty of dads out there who rock fatherhood just like he does. However, I also recognize that many fathers struggle to be present and involved in the way their partners and kids need them to be. I’m incredibly grateful for my good fortune.

So, to my husband and all the amazing fathers out there:

Thank you for getting up with the kids on the weekends so I can catch a few extra z’s. This morning, I woke up to find the living room transformed into a superhero battleground, with you and our son fighting off imaginary villains—coffee in hand. My heart can’t take it!

Thank you for those countless nights spent caring for our sick little ones. You’ve handled the laundry and the mess without a single complaint (which is more than I can say for myself!).

Thank you for those long walks up and down the hallway with our fussy infants. Your “dad walk” is legendary, calming them like nothing else.

Thank you for being the designated driver to birthday parties, swim lessons, and all those other kiddo activities. Honestly, I’d rather avoid all that driving, so I appreciate you stepping up.

Thank you for waking up at the crack of dawn to work just so you can come home early and spend time with the kids before bedtime.

Thank you for never batting an eye when you walk in after a long day only to be met with chaos. You handle it like a pro!

Thank you for remembering the little things, like how our toddler likes his pizza cut (in rectangles!) and how our older son prefers the blankets tucked in just right.

And thank you, right now, for taking our two cranky munchkins to the park so I could write this little love note to you.

I know that sometimes, dads get a bad rap. Many fathers abandon their families, and some, even when present, don’t fully grasp what it means to be an involved dad. But let’s take a moment to celebrate the fathers who really show up. You’re not just creating lifelong trust with your kids; you’re providing them with a real-life example of what a good man can be.

You’re also giving your partner a much-needed breather, allowing her to reconnect with herself beyond just being “Mommy.” Most importantly, you’re reminding her why she fell in love with you in the first place.

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In summary, let’s appreciate the amazing dads out there who make a difference in their families’ lives every day. Whether it’s through small gestures or big sacrifices, your efforts do not go unnoticed!