7 Times Fellow Moms Will Have Your Back

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Raising little ones is way tougher than I ever imagined. The support system is often non-existent—it’s just me, day in and day out, for what feels like forever. In the U.S., we don’t get much help; maternity leave is a blessing if you’re lucky enough to have it, day care isn’t affordable, and parents frequently work long hours that clash with school times. With family often far away and finances tight for extra help, it can feel like you’re in it all alone, hoping you don’t catch a cold or twist an ankle. Thankfully, amidst the chaos of parenting, other moms have been lifesavers. I’m guessing many parents feel the same, so let’s give a shout-out to those incredible moms who fill the gaps. Here are seven times fellow mothers will totally save the day.

1. When you have a newborn. The first few weeks with your baby can feel like a sleep-deprived nightmare. Just when you think you can’t make it through another night, a fantastic friend will come over to help with the night shifts so you can catch some much-needed zzz’s. And even if sleep eludes you due to breast pain or endless pumping, at least you’ll have someone to chat with during those long, lonely hours.
2. When you have a newborn, Part II. Picture this: it’s day 10 of your new baby’s life, and you suddenly decide you need to put together some complicated gadget like a co-sleeper. Good luck with that, since you can barely remember how to tie your shoes. Then, out of nowhere, a well-rested friend swoops in and assembles it in mere minutes.
3. When you discover your baby is a terrible sleeper. At first, you’re desperately hoping someone has the magic solution. Other moms will show up with their “secret weapons”—like a cozy sling or a yoga ball—hoping to help. But when nothing works (because let’s face it, some kids just won’t sleep), they’ll offer support and advice on whatever sleep strategies you’re considering, from co-sleeping to sleep training.
4. When baby number two arrives. The arrival of your second child can be overwhelming, but that’s when your mom friends really shine. They’ll organize meal deliveries so you can avoid cooking for a couple of weeks and take your older child out for some fun, giving you time to rest with the new baby.
5. When your kid takes a tumble. If your little one falls off the jungle gym, you might need to rush them to the ER. While you’re off dealing with that, other moms will gladly watch your other child for the hours it takes to get through the process.
6. When you forget essentials. It’s bound to happen—you’re at the park with no wipes, at the playground with no snacks, or at a playdate without a change of clothes for your toddler. Fear not! Fellow moms will come to your rescue.
7. When you go back to work and feel lost. If you’re returning to work and can’t make it to kindergarten orientation because of your job, those amazing moms will take care of you. They’ll snap pictures of all the important handouts and send them your way, fill you in on the new teacher, after-school options, and even share some lunch ideas.

While our country still has a long way to go in offering proper support for families, it’s important to remember that help can come from unexpected places. A neighbor who drops off a lasagna when you’re feeling overwhelmed is a massive help. She’s totally saving your behind! You can read more about community support in parenting in this insightful post.

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In summary, fellow moms are often the unsung heroes of parenting, providing the support and help we desperately need during challenging times.