10 Moms I’m No Longer Comfortable Talking To

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As if finding mom friends isn’t challenging enough, it seems that everything I say lately has the potential to upset someone. It feels like the internet is flooded with articles warning me what not to say to whom, leaving me constantly worried about offending someone. I want to be accepted by my peers, so I’ve compiled a list of ten types of moms I’ve found it hard to connect with lately.

Stay-at-Home Moms

I get it—I’m a stay-at-home mom too! I know the chaos and the caffeine required to survive the day, but I can’t fathom why some of us get defensive when asked about our daily routines. I genuinely want to know how other SAHMs avoid boredom while cleaning, feeding, and shuttling kids around. Sometimes I just want to swap survival tips or chat about our go-to brands for comfy yoga pants and snacks.

Working Moms

I know how frustrating it is to hear questions like, “How do you leave your kids all day?” or “Is it worth the extra money?” I’m just curious because I might want to re-enter the workforce someday, and it feels daunting. I really admire how you manage to juggle it all, but I often find myself hesitating to ask for fear of sounding judgmental.

Pregnant Moms

Honestly, I don’t know what to say to a pregnant woman without risking an explosion. Asking about the baby’s sex or name can feel like stepping on a landmine. To avoid any awkwardness, I tend to ignore the baby bump and only react if they mention their due date.

Moms of Only Children

As a mom of one myself, I get asked all the time if I plan to have more kids (spoiler: I don’t), and I handle it pretty well. I think these questions are perfectly valid, but I’m aware that other moms might not share my viewpoint. So, I steer clear of conversations with other moms of only kids, as their situations might be more complex.

Moms of Large Families

I find large families fascinating! It seems like there are endless stories and experiences to share. But when I meet moms with multiple kids, I often end up talking about the weather instead of asking how they manage their big brood.

Lesbian Moms

I wholeheartedly support two-mom (and two-dad) families, but I often feel nervous about saying the wrong thing. My fear of offending someone who might already face discrimination leaves me quiet when I’d rather engage.

Adoptive Moms

I completely understand the sensitivity surrounding adoption, especially if the mom is single or the child comes from a different background. I want to celebrate their bravery but worry that sharing my admiration might make them feel singled out.

Moms of Multiples

Twins and triplets are so cool! I have a natural curiosity about what life is like with multiples. I do wonder about their conception stories—were they surprises or the result of fertility treatments?—but I keep my questions to myself out of respect.

Special Needs Moms

I want to know more about your child’s experiences, but I worry that my questions could come off as intrusive or condescending. You have so much to handle already, and I don’t want to add to that burden.

Moms Dealing with Tantrums

When I see a mom whose child is in full meltdown mode, I’ll never offer unsolicited advice. I want to share what’s worked for me, but I’d rather just be grateful my child is behaving and quietly walk away.

It’s disheartening because I genuinely want to connect with these moms. I wish that nosy comments hadn’t stifled genuine conversations, as I believe we all have unique stories to share. In today’s world, where people are easily offended, it feels like the opportunity for authentic friendships is slipping away.

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Summary

The struggle to connect with various types of moms is real, as the fear of offending someone often overshadows genuine interest. From stay-at-home moms to those with large families, each group has unique challenges that can complicate conversations. By recognizing these sensitivities, we can hopefully foster a more supportive environment for all mothers.