Why Moms Deserve Their Own Playdates

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By: Sarah Thompson

Like many women of their generation, both of my grandmothers were avid bridge players, and their bridge luncheons with friends were untouchable. As a kid, I couldn’t quite grasp the appeal of the card game itself. Now, I realize that those gatherings were less about the actual game and more about the women recognizing the need to step away from the daily grind of motherhood, husbands, and chores. They cherished the time to laugh, connect, and enjoy each other’s company. It’s become clear to me that moms truly need their own playdates. Here’s why:

1. Fewer Chances for Mom Time

As kids grow up, the opportunities for mom interactions dwindle. I spent countless hours with friends while waiting for ballet classes, soccer games, and swim lessons. Those moments of camaraderie were priceless, but as kids gain independence, those gatherings naturally decrease. I recently attended a graduation party and found myself reminiscing with the moms from my kids’ Brownie Troop. It struck me how long it had been since we all gathered together, and I missed their humor and support. Note to self: time to plan the ultimate Brownie Reunion (moms only, of course).

2. A Supportive Peer Group is Crucial

Parenting can feel overwhelming, and there are times when you wonder if the demands of being a mom will ever ease up. But they do. Just as it’s important to nurture your relationship with your partner, maintaining friendships is equally vital. When the toys are finally picked up and the essays are no longer your responsibility, you’ll find yourself with a lot of free time that needs filling.

3. Life Happens, and Friends Matter

My grandmother’s bridge group has been together for over five decades, and she often reminds me that they’ve seen everything life can throw their way. From marriages and divorces to financial struggles and joyous occasions, these friendships have withstood the test of time. Now in my 40s, I see how relevant those experiences are. Having friends who know you well during both the celebrations and the challenges isn’t just nice; it’s essential.

4. It’s Just Plain Fun

Let’s not forget the joy that comes from getting together. No need for wild nights out; sometimes, it’s just about enjoying good food, sipping some wine, and sharing laughs over the chaos that is life. Whether it’s belting out ’80s tunes or catching up on life, those moments are what make it all worthwhile.

So, if you’ll excuse me, I’m off to schedule my next mom playdate. Anyone up for a game of bridge?

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In summary, moms need their own time to unwind and connect with friends who understand the journey. Whether it’s through casual meetups or organized playdates, making time for these relationships is essential for both personal well-being and a fulfilling life.