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A Little Joy in My Pocket
You know what brings me a burst of happiness? When friends text me saying, “I’m sending you a picture.” We all hope to have those friends who lend a helping hand with babysitting, share outfits for special events, or simply offer a shoulder to lean on during tough times. Over the years, I’ve made it a point to surround myself with these wonderful folks. Kindness is everywhere if you’re willing to seek it out, and these friends provide a comforting sense of security amidst the chaos of being a mom, a partner, a sibling, and a writer.
But what truly lights up my day are the friends who stumble upon the most bizarre things, instantly think of me, and send photographic proof. I hit the jackpot when I married a guy who roams around town snapping peculiar sights for me. His photo collection includes oversized stuffed animals in storefronts, people who might be in costume but are likely just being themselves, and dogs dressed in, let’s say, unconventional outfits.
I feel incredibly fortunate to have friends who do the same. I’ve received everything from a selfie of a friend donning a ridiculous bleach mustache and turban for her birthday to another friend dressed as Carmen Sandiego because I needed her to be discreet about something. The gems keep coming, like a postcard of an old man hilariously yelling at his grandkid and numerous photos of animals caught in the act of doing their business in public.
Just the other day, I was chatting with a friend who said, “Hold on, I’m sending you a picture.” My heart raced because she has a knack for finding the most amusing treasures at estate sales. I was hoping for something classic like a vintage typewriter or a cheeky sign, but instead, my screen lit up with a box of 1920s rectal dilators. While rummaging through someone’s basement, she’d picked one up without realizing its purpose until it was too late! The image of her dropping it in shock had me laughing uncontrollably, and of course, she couldn’t resist snapping a pic for me.
Sometimes there’s a backstory to these photos, other times they arrive without any context. That means I have to be super careful about who sees my phone when it buzzes, but honestly, keeping my device away from sticky fingers is a small price to pay for these little moments of joy. They’re incredibly important to me.
Life can often feel overwhelming, filled with stress, obligations, and a constant stream of bad news. It’s easy to get bogged down by family chaos, alarming headlines, and the ever-present distractions of daily life. Just when I think I can’t take it anymore, my phone vibrates, and I see a quirky picture from a friend who truly gets my sense of humor. A laugh erupts from me, lifting the weight of the day and offering a much-needed escape. I cherish these messages, more than soup when I’m feeling under the weather or advice when I’m unsure of what to do.
I hope to always have friends who keep me on my toes, sending delightful surprises to my pocket just when I need them.
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Summary
In this lighthearted reflection, Jamie shares how her friends bring joy into her life through unexpected and often humorous photos. It’s a reminder of how important these little connections are amidst life’s chaos and stress. With a few links to resources on home insemination and pregnancy, the piece captures the essence of friendship and the simple pleasures it can offer.