- Do rediscover your sense of humor—especially about your own quirks, but maybe save the laughs for private moments.
- Don’t fall in love with mint chocolate chip ice cream; just know that while it’s a guilty pleasure, you should still hit the gym.
- Do explore dating when you’re ready. There are amazing people out there, even in the tricky online sphere, but you won’t notice them if you aren’t in the right headspace.
- Don’t get inked. Tattoos are permanent, and the reasons behind them might not be.
- Do take moments to clear your mind. Embracing stillness is a wonderful gift, and sometimes your inner critic can be a total drag.
- Don’t accept random shots of apple schnapps from strangers. No further explanation needed.
- Do seize opportunities to live fully. You’re free to try anything, so go for it!
- Don’t go surfing solo. You might be single, but you’re not a pro surfer like Layne Beachley.
- Do belt out your favorite tunes in the car. Whether it’s Bruce or Nelly, let the music move you.
- Don’t sleep with men who don’t value you. You’ve been there, done that with your ex-husband, right?
- Do pick up a new hobby. Or revisit an old one. Just keep busy; you’re more interesting than you think.
- Don’t suppress your emotions. Acknowledge them, but remember they’re often fleeting.
- Do appreciate the beauty around you. Art, nature, music, and stories—there’s inspiration everywhere.
- Don’t overlook the small things. Simple acts like making your child dinner or starting a new holiday tradition can be deeply meaningful.
- Do connect with friends. They’ll remind you of your roots, and they don’t care about your divorce.
- Don’t buy clothes that are too young or tight. Trust me, you don’t want to be that woman. Embrace comfy fabrics!
- Do sneak a peek at your sleeping kiddo. It’s the sweetest sight to carry in your heart at night.
- Don’t attempt crafting without caution. Unless you’re ready for potential glue gun injuries, maybe skip the arts and crafts aisle.
- Do treat others as you wish to be treated. This includes being kind to yourself, too!
- And most importantly, don’t lose hope. You’ve got one life—make the most of it!
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In summary, life after divorce can be a rollercoaster! Embrace the ups and downs, find joy in small things, and remember to take care of yourself as you embark on this new chapter.