I Block My Mother-in-Law on Social Media

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So, here’s the deal: I’ve blocked my mother-in-law on Facebook, and let me tell you, it’s for everyone’s sake. Seriously, it’s like a digital present wrapped in a not-so-pretty disguise. Think of it as a protective measure—for her, for me, and for the sanity of our future family gatherings.

When you add your MIL on social media, you open the floodgates to her scrutinizing all your posts, especially the ones featuring her adored grandkids. She’s all about those little munchkins! But let’s be real: not every post is going to sit well with her. You might find yourself exchanging eye-rolling comments, leading to a full-on social media showdown that your husband definitely won’t appreciate.

I’ve blocked her on Facebook and Instagram. As for Twitter, well, it’s public, so I’m kinda stuck there, but at least I have a character limit! I’m not exactly the easiest person to be friends with online. Let’s just say I’m all about Outspoken Profane Posts. I don’t hold back on my opinions, especially when it comes to intolerance in any form. And yes, I share my love for wine and throw in the occasional cheeky photo of my kids—cue the judgment from family.

Here are five solid reasons why blocking your MIL (or anyone similar) on social media might be a smart move:

1. Feelings Get Hurt: I might unintentionally upset her. If I post a family photo without her, she could feel excluded. Explaining why she wasn’t invited never goes over well.
2. Humor Gaps: We definitely don’t share the same sense of humor. My idea of a funny selfie might be a total shocker to her. Imagine me posting a pic with my kids, jokingly telling them to “eff off” for not eating dinner. Her response? A sweet reminder of how much Grandma loves them, which just makes me roll my eyes.
3. Beliefs Clash: Our values are worlds apart. If I post something about equality or poke fun at certain beliefs, I can expect some eye-rolling memes headed my way. I’d rather avoid the back-and-forth drama.
4. Public Embarrassment: My relationship with my MIL is a bit rocky, and I don’t need the world watching our every disagreement. Some things are best kept in private, don’t you think?
5. Drama on Repeat: Social media never forgets. Those awkward encounters can be rehashed at any time, and I don’t want to relive a Facebook fight every time I log in.

If you have a great relationship with your MIL, awesome! But let’s be real—everyone has that one relative who could probably use a good blocking.

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In summary, blocking those who bring more stress than joy in your social media life can be a necessary step to maintaining your peace.