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Stop Splurging on Your Kids While Neglecting Yourself
You know what? I realized I had completely stopped treating myself to new things. My bras were in a sad state—some even had holes. And don’t get me started on my underwear; it was so worn out it might as well have been in first grade. My closet? It was a mishmash of high-end items from ages ago, along with random finds from stores that also sell fluorescent relish. Honestly, getting dressed felt like a scavenger hunt through a thrift store from the late ’90s.
As my kids grew at lightning speed, I funneled all my clothing budget into their wardrobes. It was like living vicariously through their fashion choices. If they looked adorable, surely that was a reflection on me, right? People would think, “That mom may look a bit rough, but her kids are so stylish!”
But last week, I had a wake-up call. My daughter’s preschool was hosting a fancy ribbon-cutting event for their new building, complete with local dignitaries and the school board. I planned to swoop in quietly, but as usual, I was running late. I ended up arriving just as everyone was gathering.
Dressed in an eye-popping red-and-orange striped shirt and black jeans, I felt like I’d just stepped out of a time machine from the 70s. I parked my car down the street and waited until the ceremony was over, not ready to face the crowd.
That was my turning point. The very next day, I hit up Marshall’s and treated myself to some new tops. As I made my way to the checkout, I was bombarded with the kid stuff displays. “Oh, look at those cute barrettes for my daughter!” I thought. Then, it hit me—why was I still thinking about buying for them? I was already running around to multiple grocery stores to cater to their picky tastes. Did I really need to bring home more stuff that would end up lost or tossed aside? Heck no.
I overheard another mom contemplating some frilly headbands and couldn’t help but declare, “I’m not buying my kids one more thing!” She agreed, saying, “You’ve inspired me. They have enough already!” I felt a little sense of pride for encouraging another mom to prioritize herself.
I realized I mattered too. I could indulge myself without feeling guilty, and buying a ton of stuff for my kids didn’t make me a better mother.
So, let’s break the cycle. We can treat ourselves and ditch the guilt. Because honestly, who needs more clutter when we can invest in ourselves?
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Summary
Stop neglecting your own needs while showering your children with gifts! It’s time to focus on self-care and realize that being a great mom doesn’t hinge on buying your kids everything they want. Celebrate yourself and invest in your wardrobe without guilt—it’s a win-win!