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Kindness, Please, No Judgment
You know, I don’t always feel like throwing a punch while someone’s kid is watching, but there are moments when it seems justified. Like that time I was out with my newborn son, Leo, and a random guy made the most obnoxious comment ever. Leo, just a few weeks old, suddenly erupted into a full-blown scream—like, the kind that makes you question your life choices as a parent.
I quickly maneuvered my shopping cart to the side, trying to calm him down. It took me only about 10 seconds to unbuckle him and scoop him up, but during that time, a man with a terrible haircut and his little girl strolled past. The girl, maybe 4 or 5, asked, “Why is that baby crying?” I shot her a sympathetic smile—she looked genuinely concerned. But then her dad, with all the grace of a rhino, responded, “I don’t know, but I wish it would stop.” Seriously? Did he think that would magically quiet my baby? Did he want me to shove a sock in Leo’s mouth or something?
I couldn’t help but wonder what his daughter thought of her dad’s comment. Here was a little girl, likely feeling empathy, while her father was being a total jerk. I get it; some folks just lack basic kindness. And it’s not the first time I’ve felt the sting of judgment when my kid acts like a tiny tornado. But let’s be real—parenting is tough. Shouldn’t other parents understand that?
So, if you see a mom or dad dealing with a meltdown, maybe consider this: save the stink eye and skip the snarky comments. If my kid is acting out, trust me, I’m painfully aware of it. We’re all just trying to figure out this crazy journey of raising kids. A little compassion goes a long way. Instead of throwing daggers with your eyes, offer up a friendly smile or a nod that says, “I’ve been there.” It’s way better than another layer of stress on top of what’s already a chaotic situation.
And if you happen to have a lollipop in your bag or a funny video on your phone, I could really use that lifeline. Just a little kindness can make a world of difference.
As luck would have it, I ended up right behind that rude guy in line, and thankfully, Leo had calmed down. “Is she happy now?” his daughter asked me. “Yes, she is! You’re so sweet for checking,” I said, purposely loud enough for the dad to hear. But, of course, he ignored me and all the kindness that his daughter showed. I decided against any throat punches because, you know, I’m a lady and I wasn’t dressed for a mugshot that day.
And just to add to the universe’s sense of humor, the guy’s debit card got declined. Thanks, universe!
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In summary, let’s choose kindness over judgment. Parenting is hard enough without the added stress of criticism from others. Just a little understanding can make a huge difference.