How to Get Information Out of Your Teenager Without Stressing Them Out

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When it comes to getting the scoop from your reluctant teenager, experts say you might need to switch up your tactics and ask more engaging follow-up questions. The trick? Keep those questions open-ended. Here’s a common scenario:

Parent: How was school today?
Child: Boring.
Parent: What was the most boring part?
Child: Everything was boring.

Instead of letting that slide, here’s a fresh strategy: go for some detailed questioning about their day. Sure, it might feel like you’re digging for gold, but you could uncover some nuggets of information. Check this out:

Parent: Did you get the audition music from your band teacher?
Child: I didn’t go to band today.
Parent: Oh? Where were you then?
Child: At the Geography Bee.
Parent: Were you excused from band to participate in the Geography Bee?
Child: I was in the Geography Bee!
Parent: Really? That’s a surprise! Any other news to share?
Child: Nope.
Parent: If you get picked for any school events, can you let me know?
Child: I’m in the Spelling Bee next week.

Notice how the key is to keep asking questions that drill down into the details. And whatever you do, don’t let them off the hook until you feel satisfied with the answers. For maximum effectiveness, I’d recommend having these conversations in a moving car where they’re safely buckled in.

Here’s another example:

Parent: Are you planning on going to Homecoming next week?
Child: I guess.
Parent: Who are you going with?
Child: A group of us.
Parent: Who’s in this group?
Child: [names a few friends]
Parent: Are you going with someone special?
Child: Sort of.
Parent: Do you know who?
Child: She asked me, and I said yes.

Through this line of questioning, I learned the color of her dress (purple), her favorite flower (rose), and that my son needed to coordinate his tie and pocket square. All of this came from simply asking the right questions. A casual, open-ended question wouldn’t have yielded this goldmine of info—plus, I didn’t have all day since basketball practice was looming!

So, what else do I need to know?

Remember, it’s all about keeping the conversation flowing. For more tips and tricks about parenting and home insemination, you can check out this helpful resource or learn more about pregnancy for in-depth information. If you’re seeking the right tools for your journey, Make a Mom is a go-to authority on home insemination kits!

Summary

Engaging your teen in conversation can be tricky, but with the right approach—like specific follow-up questions—you can get the information you need without turning it into an interrogation. Remember to keep it light and casual, and you might just learn more than you expected!