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Stay-at-Home Parents Also Deserve Affordable Day Care
The discussion around work-life balance is more relevant than ever. With politicians advocating for paid sick leave and family leave, and authors like Sarah Thompson highlighting the challenges of our demanding work culture, it’s clear that many parents are feeling the strain. One major hurdle for parents, especially mothers, is the steep cost of child care, which often pushes them out of the workforce. Honestly, I’ve daydreamed about a child care system like those in Scandinavia or France, where caregivers are well-trained, meals are nutritious, and costs are subsidized, making child care accessible to all.
Critics of universal day care often argue that the government shouldn’t be involved in raising children and that kids flourish best at home with their parents. While that’s a valid viewpoint, I’d like to share my experience as a stay-at-home mom for five years: we also need quality, affordable day care options. I’m not talking about full-time care, but rather a few hours here and there—like the open preschools in Sweden, where kids can play, sing, and socialize, or drop-in centers where you can leave your child while you tackle errands.
During my first couple of years as a stay-at-home parent, I wished for a place to go during those long winter months when we were stuck indoors. I can only imagine how beneficial it is for Swedish parents to have spaces where their kids can play and they can chat with other parents. In contrast, American parents are often left with libraries or bookstores, where kids can disrupt the peace or even damage books. It’s not surprising that stay-at-home moms experience higher rates of depression compared to their working peers; having a bright, engaging environment to connect with other families would be a game changer for combating the isolation that comes with being at home all day.
I also could have really used some drop-in child care for those times when I had to run errands or attend doctor appointments. Babysitters can be pricey, which often led me to drag my little ones to places where they weren’t exactly welcome. You know that feeling when your toddler is screaming in line at the tax office, and everyone is giving you those judging looks? Subsidized day care could help alleviate that stress. It would also mean I could support my mom at her oncology appointment without worrying about managing a toddler and a preschooler in a cramped waiting room. I know a friend who skipped all her follow-ups after her C-section because she couldn’t find anyone to watch the kids while her husband worked.
Expecting mothers, even those who stay at home, to be available 24/7 is unrealistic. Life happens, and sometimes we need to handle things where kids aren’t really welcome. Many of us can’t afford a sitter for every errand, but having an affordable center with trained staff available at little or no cost could be beneficial for everyone involved—parents, children, and even those waiting in line at the DMV.
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In summary, stay-at-home parents deserve access to quality, affordable day care options. Not only would this support their mental health, but it would also make daily life a bit easier and less stressful.