Your Grown Son Won’t Poop His Pants (And Other Worries You Can Let Go)

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As a mom of two little ones, I often find myself caught up in the whirlwind of worries about my children’s development. I stress over whether they’re growing up too slowly or if I’m messing up their future. With social media, celebrity parenting trends, and even the well-meaning moms at the park, it’s easy to feel like my kids need to be doing more or hitting milestones faster. But here’s the deal—I’ve decided to stop worrying, and I want you to join me in this resolution. Someday soon, your toddler will grow up to be a perfectly normal adult, contributing positively to society. So, let’s take a deep breath and embrace this phase. Here are a few things to stop fretting over:

1. Potty Training Will Happen: Trust me, your child will eventually master the potty. Right now, I’m in the trenches of potty training my son, who seems to think the IKEA potty is just a place to sit and declare, “All done!” But aside from a few embarrassing moments, most adults don’t face pants-pooping challenges. Diapers will be a thing of the past.
2. Pacifiers Are Temporary: How many high schoolers do you see with pacifiers? Not many! I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s not losing sleep over my 2.5-year-old’s love for her binky. She’ll ditch it when she’s ready, just like all kids do.
3. Food Preferences Will Change: One day, your child will be adventurous with food. As we grow, our tastes evolve. That phase of only wanting chicken nuggets or frozen waffles will pass. Trust that your performance of the “veggie dance” will eventually work its magic!
4. Consistent Sleep Will Come: Every new parent wonders when their little one will sleep through the night. I’m still waiting on that with my toddlers, but I know the day is coming when they’ll be hard to wake up in the morning. Hang in there; we’ll get there together!
5. Sleeping Arrangements Will Shift: Right now, I’m practically sleeping on the edge of my bed because my kids think it’s a sleepover every night. But soon enough, they’ll want their own space, and I’ll have my bed back!
6. Independent Play is on the Horizon: Believe it or not, your kids will one day play on their own without needing your constant involvement. They’ll create stories and adventures with their toys, allowing you some precious free time.
7. Clothing Will Eventually Stick: While nudity may seem like your child’s favorite fashion choice, they will learn the importance of wearing clothes in public. So, if they want to run around naked, let them—it just means less laundry for you!
8. Bath Time Can Improve: Bath time might not be your child’s favorite activity, but there’s a good chance that one day, they’ll enjoy it more. If not, hey, every friend group needs their “stinky” kid, right?

Ultimately, we parents have a lot on our plates, and worrying takes away from enjoying this chaotic yet beautiful stage of life. Your kids will grow, sleep independently, say goodbye to pacifiers, and perhaps even be the “smelly” kid in the group. What truly matters is the love you share.

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In summary, let go of your worries. The toddler years can be loud and messy, but they are also filled with love and growth. Trust that your child will grow up just fine.